Audience: Guys and Gals
Topics: Relationships, Love
Level: Everyone
Optional Audio (This song takes some getting used to but is real pillow talk game play… couple months in.)
Why Men Don’t Say I love you.
One very simple answer.
Fear.
It is also one of the golden rule of A Game Dating, timing. The right place and the right time. Don’t cross the line until the time is right, as Love… is not attractive. Lust is.
The Magic of Attraction
Attraction is – Reverse human nature. And I guess why we want what is bad for us. Or what we can’t have. And why women instinctually are attracted to the bad boy. Here’s why.
There is no worse game than walking up to a woman and saying… “I love you.”
Likewise the the fastest way to get rid of a woman, that you’ve recently started dating is to say, “I love you.”
Absolutely the worst possible thing to say.
It’s the right thing to say… Just the wrong time.
Timing is critical. Absolutely.
Again, A Game Dating is the right place at the right time AND saying the right things. All Three. Timing is critical. Just like when you say I love you for the first time.
If you’re running game, the only thing worse you could do is insult her. Calling names. But of cordial conversation, those are the words you do not say.
This type of thinking is learned behavior. Because many, if not most, certainly a lot of guys at one point in time have screwed up and said it – and she’s gone. It didn’t work out or what have you. They opened their heart and had it broken. Pain.
On a side note, I’ve used it in relationships that are going no where, so a bit insincerely. If it’s time to end it and be a nice guy, just say… I love you. You can even send a cheesy photo with it written in the sand. If she’s just sticking around for something other than love… she’s gone. Just that quick.
Saying I Love You is Oodling.
Saying I love you too early when love is not shared…. (key, right time and right place) is oodling.
By definition… “A person who, although affectionate, has a severe lack of manners and who will exploit any opportunity to lower the tone of a conversation, usually by making extremely tenuous innuendoes.”
Note on that page… tenuous. Holding by a thread. Ghostly at best. “I was all over that babe. Made advances that were tenuous at best, what with not having even talked at a personal level.”
From oodling to tenuous innuendoes to… Ghostly.
Bam! You get ghosted if you’re running game and say “I love you too quick. By definition, that is why.
Oodling is Drooling, Slobbering or Being a Fool, a Jester.
Are Jesters and clowns sexy? No.
When have you had awesome Clown Sex? Right? It’s not game. Can you pickup hot chicks with a clown outfit? No.
She will not orgasm or shutter with a clown outfit… thinking about clown face. I’m certain. Prove me wrong. If you know of a porn video where Bozo is running game… not with a nasty coke whore either. The girl has to be hot. We’re not talking about fat chicks at a trailer park. That’s not game either. Well… if you can pickup fat chicks at a trailer park in a clown outfit… you got game. And not much to do
You can’t oodle the girl. Or anything similar. You can give a compliment… a greeting or a joke. That’s it. A compliment is NOT oodling, drooling or slobbering. Fools say I love you. And if you’ve run game with that feel free to comment below. (We’re not talking about fat chicks at a trailer park. That’s not game. Well, if you can pickup fat chicks at a trailer park in a clown outfit, you got game. And not much to do. And you should probably become a YouTube video star.
When Can You Say I Love You?
Hear me out, now you can say I Love You, when the time is right.
Some people will never get that close to feel love, much less say it. Others are inherently unable to love or choose not to love. As a projection of care, consideration, closeness and a physical energy that often accompanies lust.
When ready for Unity – Oneness, Love. (:
Some people just don’t want to be happy either. Keep that in mind. Love comes from within.
And even when love is in the air and life is grand, you still have to run game. Or attraction is lost in the eternal sands of time, with age and energy.
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