Audience: Guys Only
Level: Casanova Club
How to Attract Women, Dating
A few years back I lived in a large apartment complex on the westside of LA. I was getting ready to head out on a date, rolling all fresh and clean and this player was chilling in the lobby and we bullshitted for a bit. I was waiting for my date to pick me up with her 560SL. A nice cougar out of Beverly. We talked about game and I mentioned this woman coming to pick me up sent me a message online. This player took a step back and said, “So you don’t initiate?”
At that moment it occurred to me that I had some pretty good game. And he hustled real game – for a player.
How to Attract Women and Not Chase Them.
Mental Perspective & The Rules
For the most part having women pursue you is a perspective – entirely attitude AND following rules of the game. Very specific rules and Laws of Attraction to start a chase. And have her maintain pursuit.
As a guy, you pretty much have to do both. You have to be able to pursue women and have them pursue you.
When everything is going your way, women are attracted to you and you don’t have to chase. There’s a lot you can do to make things go your way.
Date Down and Improve Your Game
An easy way to start having women pursue you is to date down. You don’t have to date really far down, just a bit. Let’s say enough where you are super confident you control the situation, the relationship and the outcome. And if she treasures you and pays for everything – you are being pursued. I’ve found its easy to have women pursue you; the trick is to get what you want.
Taking a Step Down
When I was a pup in high school I was dating a popular blonde Christine. This girl was an 8 maybe a 8.2 and she put up quite a chase. At the same time I had been spending a lot of time with best friends Mandy and Jennine, cheerleaders from the other high school in town. These two girls were great. We’d chill out in and play this game where they’d take their bra off and you get to massage their breast from behind. It was legendary.
Now, as hot as they were and it was great spending time with them or Christine, these women were not at my becking call. They were not pursing me. I had to run game and chase them.
Then I changed my game and my expectations. The hottest girls from the other high school and a pretty girl from my own class to Lily, an older girl from the senior class with a boyfriend, Joe. Joe didn’t like me much. Anyways, it was great. You could do whatever you wanted. You still had to roll game and charm, but her expectation were so much less than the super hot girls.
There was never “No.” You could go over to her house pretty much anytime you wanted or do it just about anywhere. It lasted for a couple of months and Joe got back together with her. I believe they got married.
What I learned from the relationship with Lily was it was so much easier. She wanted my attention and was willing and able to do anything, trust and friendship. That made it equal. She was always coming over and I could go to her place. She adored me and it was an easy relationship because she pursued me.
A Light Chase
Sometimes all you need is a light chase. She won’t chase obviously but always answer the text within a few minutes and is there.
If She Chases The Sex is Better
That’s what I’ve found, almost guaranteed; the sex much better if she chases. Let’s say 2… 3… maybe 10 times better.