Topics: Relationships, Love
Audience: Guys and Gals
Level: All. The Cub, The Man & The Casanova
Optional Audio: Daughtry – Over You
Letting Go of of Past Relationships is Key to a Successful New Relationship.
Bro, Let Go. The Past is History
Out with the Old and in with the New!
A secret to dating success is starting fresh with a good attitude and letting go of past relationships. When you are ready to start a new relationship, you will need to be positive, friendly and fun. You may need to take some time to heal your heart and your mind to begin a new relationship. Your past relationship may include betrayal, abandonment and a broken heart. These experiences are difficult to deal with. Take time and talk with friends that can sincerely evaluate your experiences and offer suggestions and positive encouragement. You may need to let time pass to get past your previous relationships. When you are ready to let go of the past, dating will be much easier, fun and your new relationship will be off to a great start.
Complaining is a Turn-Off
The fastest way to end a first date of a new relationship is to complain about your ex-girlfriend, ex-wife… your ex. Take it as fact and basic human psychology, complaining is a turn-off. When you complain about your past relationship, you are exhibiting an unattractive quality.
A new relationship is also a new friendship. New friendships must be kindled and protected.
Learn from the Past
Whether your last relationship was 30 days or 30 years, take what you learned form that experience and make your new relationships better. To create a new relationship, look forward and not backwards.
You should learn from the past
Heal the Pain
When the chains of love are broken, you’ve been abandoned or cheated on – it hurts. Healing the heart and the mind takes time.
Talk with Friends, Even Strangers
While you are letting time pass from your last relationship, help heal your heart and emotional wounds by talking with friends.
Betrayal
Getting past previous relationships that may include betrayal and a broken heart is to talk with friends.
Getting Over Divorce, Pain and the Past
Often when long relationships and marriages between two people end, it’s easy to bring past relationship especially long marriages that end in divorce.
New relationships can turn sour quite quickly when
Suggested Reading:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/How_to_Win_Friends_and_Influence_People
Know the points…
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How to Start a New Relationship
The first step to starting a successful new relationship is to brush up on how to be a friendly and likeable person. There are simple rules to follow to get people to like you and these rules work very well for dating.
Rule #1: Don’t Complain
Rule #2: Don’t Criticize
Rule #3. Show Sincere Gratitude and Appreciation – Say Thank You
I recommend a quick refresher with Dale Carnegie rules of “How to Win Friends and Influence People.”
I recommend following two basic principals, The Laws of Attraction and Being a Friendly, Likeable Person.
A quick way to ruin a new relationship is to constantly complain aboutfollowing
First you must be a likeable person