Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: Creating Desire
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club
Optional Audio: Marshmello – Silence Ft. Khalid
Dating Strategy – Silence Works.
Welcome to Mr. Right’s Dating Advice! Today we are going to teach you how to run game. And teach you why it works.
Really we’re going to teach you how to shut up and get laid!
The Game is Psychology.
The basics of the basics. Boy plays it cool. Boy gets girl.
Seems what makes great advice different that good advice is simplicity. How easy can we make it? How about this?
Bro… Shut Up. Patience. Wait. Play it cool.”
The Game. The Laws of Attraction.
Getting back to basics with “boy plays it cool, boy get’s girl” let’s open that faded copy of Winning through Intimidation by Robert J. Ringer and flip to page, 190 for his recap of the Boy-Girl Theory.
Quoting… “The Boy-Girl Theory is probably the most basic of all psychological rules governing human relationships. In fact it was in existence the day man first appeared on earth. It states that every person wants what he can’t have and does not want what he can have. It is most evident in the “boy-girl game,” and there are very few adults in the world that have not played the game. It works like this:
If boy plays it cool, then girl wants boy (or vice versa); if boy comes on like a hungry dog chasing a squirrel, then girl does not want boy (or vice versa).
If you’ve ever seen a guy who looks like the Hunchback of Notre Dame walking down the street with a gorgeous female on his arm, and wondered what the girl could possibly see in him, you were undoubtable viewing the results of the Boy-Girl Theory, the old Hunchback probably knew how to play it cool.
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Running Game is Consciously Changing Your Natural Behavior to Create Desire and Attraction. When you bring your A Game, you bring your best – A Game Dating.
The Game is Leveraging Attraction, kindness and desire to maintain lust and create the conditions for love. Winning the Game takes leveraging attraction and kindness to create desire to maintain lust and create the conditions for love and lust. You screw up, or say dumb stuff you lose. You say nothing or the right thing and you win.
There are clearly winners and losers in the dating game. Those alone at night – are losers. It’s simple. The winners have both love and lust.
What you say and do and the little details is what makes the difference. The great part about online dating is you don’t do anything. You don’t even have to talk. You type stuff. Love and lust is removed from 5 senses to one. Thought and interpretation. You creates basic image and her imagination fills in the blanks.
Winning the dating game is mostly psychology and patience. Success, love and lust are ruled by the Laws of Attraction. Not as metaphysical speculation, but as proven behavior that creates desire. The laws of Attraction are not always logical.
Don’t Be a Car Salesman. A Player. A Hustler.
The same with sales and how to get people to buy things. Dating is just like selling. The selling game doesn’t change. What you sell does.
You can run a hustle and be a great salesman and sell someone a piece of shit.
Be as honest
Honesty and Good Intentions, Whatever They Maybe.
Create. Urges.
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Wait. For an Offering. Be Busy.
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Make Her Laugh. Structured Response
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Don’t create Obligations.
If you send over a emoji kiss, she’s obligated to send a kiss back. You’re making her do something. Obligating her.
Silence. Make Her Think About You.
Step 1. Smile Bro!
I smile and give a bit of a confident grin as I’m about to run Baywatch style infront of all these tourists. As I get right infront of her, maybe 8 feet away, she notices me and smiles.
Gentlemen, we’re not playing games. Often you’ll read on women’s dating profiles, “No Games.” or “Tired of Games.” Nice ladies… often they are clueless. They think there is some mysterious game going on and her kitty is the prize. Often these women don’t date well, have been ghosted, may not understand men, are boring in bed or something weird is going on – or she just expects way too much.