dating success

Patience is the name of the Game. Worst Thursday Date, Best Sunday Date!

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: First Dates
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Marshmello – Silence Ft. Khalid

A Game Dating: Patience is the name of the Game.

It’s Sunday night. A spectacular cool fall night here in South Florida on Singer Island. A cool breeze from the north has made today, a great day.

Earlier in the week, I had a horrible date. The worst date ever. Let’s say I’ve had one or two that tied this. But reasonably, this was the worst.

We’ll call her Angee. Anyways, this girl hits me up on Bumble about 10 days ago. She’s forward but short. A strawberry blonde from New Jersey. Fairly attractive but not hot. Let’s say the fun neighbor girl next door… with just a hint of redhead trouble. A mid 7… on a good day, a 7.7 out of 10.

We had only a few sentences and she was quick to ask to go out for drinks. I let her know that I just sold my Porsche and I’m in the process of getting a motorcycle, which means I have no ride.

No worries, turns out this girl doesn’t have a car either! In theory she will be fun and not judgmental. In theory.

The best part of living on a tropical island is it’s a tropical island. 😀 We have 5 or 6 public bars and many big private resorts. It’s all inclusive once you get here. I got here years ago…

So in the Dating Game, he or she whom has the nicest place/town/location hosts. By default you go to the better place. Unless you live in nowhere then you both go somewhere better to meet and greet. And for me, it means in you live in 30 miles around this island, you come here, because it’s that good.

On Tuesday Angee asks me how’s my scheduling looking to meet up. I suggest to Angee to come to Island for drinks. And since she takes the time to come my way, I’ll pick up the drinks. Partially to be friendly and the other to lessen the dating pay to play feel, where she’s doing something for that drink and it takes a bit of the awkward part out.

We played the qiuet game on Wednesday. No textinging at all. In anticipation for Thursday. The classic game play of say nothing to be safe. The date is scheduled. Anything you say will probally screw it up.

Thursday rolls around and she gives the confirmation greeting in the late morning and asks if we are on for later.

I say, “Sure.”

What to Expect & What Works.

The Right Attitude.

1. Use a Few Dating Sites and Apps

Different Apps gets Different Girls.

Bro, I live in nowhere. What should I do?

Easy. You have Three options. First, move.

If you live in a remote part of the world, expect you’ll have to do some traveling.

Option 2. Travel Dating and

Option 3. Remote Relationships

Really we’re going to teach you how to shut up and get laid!

Bro… Shut Up. Patience. Wait. Play it cool.”

Great First Dates! Where to Go and What to Do.

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: Creating Desire
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Marshmello – Silence Ft. Khalid

Great First Dates! Where to Go and What to Do.

Welcome to Mr. Right’s Dating Advice! Today we are going to teach you how to run game. And teach you why it works.

Really we’re going to teach you how to shut up and get laid!

Bro… Shut Up. Patience. Wait. Play it cool.”

(Mini Golf)

Dating Websites THE LOW DOWN. The Cost of Free.

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: Dating Websites Reviewed
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Marshmello – Silence Ft. Khalid

Dating Websites THE LOW DOWN. And The Cost of Free.

Welcome to Mr. Right’s Dating Advice! Today we are going to teach you what dating websites rock and which ones suck. And why.

Note: We are not married losers sitting at some company being paid to write. We hustlers, beach boys, playboys and lovers. We use these websites to attract and pickup up women. We make love to them and teach you what works and how to save time. The real deal. And yeah, we only date hot chicks. We know what to say, what not to say and go along for the ride and have a great time! Anytime.

Really we’re going to teach you how to shut up and get laid!

Bro… Shut Up. Patience. Wait. Play it cool.”

Dating Websites THE LOW DOWN. The Cost of Free.

Welcome to Mr. R

Famous 5 Minute Online Dating Quick Start for Success

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: Creating Desire
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Marshmello – Silence Ft. Khalid

Famous 5 Minute Online Dating Quick Start for Success

Like life, online dating is what you make it. Using the right tools for the right job, you save tons of time and money. With these dating profiles, the text messages and pickup lines, you can date as much as you want. This is a quick guide to give you an idea how to use your time and what to do, so you have a great time. There’s an abundance of love and lust. Be patient and you will succeed.

What to Expect & What Works.

The Right Attitude.

1. Use a Few Dating Sites and Apps

Different Apps gets Different Girls.

Bro, I live in nowhere. What should I do?

Easy. You have Three options. First, move.

If you live in a remote part of the world, expect you’ll have to do some traveling.

Option 2. Travel Dating and

Option 3. Remote Relationships

Really we’re going to teach you how to shut up and get laid!

Bro… Shut Up. Patience. Wait. Play it cool.”

First Date and She Brings Over A Rubber Mattress

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: Creating Desire
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Marshmello – Silence Ft. Khalid

Dating Strategy – Silence Works.

Welcome to Mr. Right’s Dating Advice! Today we are going to teach you about different expectations, dates verses hookups.

Really we’re going to teach you how to shut up and get laid!

Check this out… so I meet this nice girl online. Typical deal, she sees my profile, actually reads it and sends me a message. Fair enough. I get a couple messages a day from new girls. Most are the typical “Wow.” or “Hey, My name is Jane. What’s Yours?” intro message. I keep an eye out for the girls that just look at the pictures and message me – these girls only want sex. Generally lots of rough sex. (:

No worries, this new girl follows all the rules, reads my profile and ask questions about things I’m interested in. It’s off to a good start!

You should know, smart hot guys get the same amount of attention that hot chicks get online – lots. If you look good, guy or girl and you are looking for a date, playmate or a friend, there is an abundance and they will find you online. The sheer volume of people using dating sites, makes it well worth your while to have the best profile possible to attract new people. I offer dating advice and expert help with your dating profile. I know what works and how to get women from the dating site to your pad. If you would like basic help with your profile, go here. For guys that don’t know what to say, I offer complete profile strategy and writing to attract the right person for you – Checkout My Platinum Dating Profiles.

Back to my adventure… So this new girl and I have a lot in common and she is a “match” according to the dating site. As much as I enjoy beautiful women, rich chicks and all that jazz, a relationship or a friend with benefits is much nicer if we have things in common for casual pillow talk.

Quite honestly, I’m fairly busy and content, so I’m not going to drive all over Southern California to go on date, much less for a first date. I live by the beach, why in heck would I want to get in a car and deal with traffic and get all stressed out? I don’t mind hopping on the motorcycle to cruise around town and go on adventure trips, but I’m certainly not going to look for a parking spot and worry about being on time. It’s much easier if she just comes over.

My motto is, why row when you can just put up the sail? On a side note, I actually love rowing. I even have a Bowflex that I only use for rowing. I lived on a lake for 10 years and I’d row in the morning with the fog rising off the water – ah… the good ole’ days. When it comes to relationships, it supposed to be easy, so I don’t row. I sail. I go with the flow, with the wind. I steer a bit, keep calm and have a good time.

Back to my story… after a few messages online, I give her my number and she starts texting. We get to the 500 message benchmark and she’s kicking around days to come up and visit that would work with her schedule.

I’ve noticed it’s around 500 text messages and most women will see you are not chasing and will pursue you. When you get to 800-900 messages, which include just smiley faces and kisses counting as a message, it’s time to meet. If she goes over 1,000 messages you are vested, she’s a no-go or something weird is going on. So meet or move on to the next girl.

Oddly, she says Monday will work for her. Okay with me. I usually prefer to meet new girls Tuesday-Thursday as Mondays are recovery day and there’s not a lot going on for events and things to do on Mondays. The weekend is reserved for exiting hot dates and bro’s night. Not only does she say Monday, but 10:00 in the morning. Ummm… okay. Some days I get up early, but I can’t guarantee it. I like to have coffee, swim and play a round of tennis or two before a date, but for this girl seems cool enough and I will make an exception.

So Monday comes around and she sends a text at 8:30 in the morning that she’s on the way. Sure enough she’s on time and she rings the bell. I head to the door and invite her in. Nice girl. She looks better than her pictures and she passes the hug and sniff test.

Interesting enough, she’s got a large white shopping bag with her. Hmmm…. that’s different.

She takes a seat on my couch and I offer her coffee. Within a few moments we’re close and nuzzling. I’m a professional nuzzler. I even perfected the 2-3 day face stubble to get the most stimulation on her neck. In a minute or two we start making out and all is good.

Excitedly, she hops up and opens up the bag. This girl pulls out a new rubber mattress.

“No sh*t.” Wow. First date and a rubber mattress.

If you don’t know what a rubber mattress is, take a second and look it up.

Girl, it’s 10:05 on Monday morning and you’ve come over looking to get plowed and all kinky with a rubber mattress for our first date?

And all this time I thought I found a nice girl that wanted to go the beach after sex, cuddle up and watch movies.

Here’s the kicker…
She was married.

That’s why on my profile, the first thing I say is… “No married women. Period. No married women. Just look at the pictures and move along.”

12 Simple Rules for Dating Success and Peace of Mind

Topics: Relationships, Love, Success
Audience: Guys and Gals
Level: The Cub, The Man & The Casanova

Optional Audio Imagine Dragons, Whatever it Takes.

12 Simple Rules for Dating Success, Happiness and Peace of Mind

Sometimes failure is not an option, for love and life. The two things most people can’t live without. If you are struggling for life, you have to succeed. Failure is death and that is not an option. Just as with Love. If you are struggling with love, you have to succeed. Failure is not an option. Except for the crazy cat lady, she gave up. She loves the cats and they really don’t care about her. She has no love.

How Hard Are You Really Trying?

Putting it perspective, when you are fighting for you life, you’ll try a lot harder. Again and again until you succeed. To succeed dating, you’ll need to go all in. And open your heart. And often when you open your heart dating, you get hurt. Use these words to bring peace in times of uncertainty, loneliness, rejection and a path for success – those feelings are all temporary. It’s tricky to be above the situation, when you are in it. And all in.

12 Steps for Dating Success!

1. Smile.
2. Tell Yourself “I will succeed!”
3. Visualize your goal.
4. Have faith and believe in your goal, God, the universe and yourself.
5. Consider everything is temporary. The moment. The situation.
6. Keep calm and carry on.
7. Never give up and try again.
8. Take step back and evaluate the situation.
9. Be modest. What can you change about you?
10. Try a different approach.
11. Have a good time.
12. Smile. You Will Succeed.

Step 1. Smile! For Your Dating Success!

Way under done. Smile. Smile and Smile more! First, you look better smiling. Everyone does. A smiling face says you are a happy person. Fun and people want to be around happy people. Who wants to hang out with Debbie Downer? Nobody. So smile and if you have to act. Over time, it’ll be genuine. If you want to attract, you have to be likeable and fun to be around. Smiling is #1.

Step 2. Tell Yourself “I will succeed!”

You can achieve almost anything you want; if you spend enough time, effort and energy and sometimes money; but you can achieved anything you put your mind to. Visualize success and put action forth. Eventually you will succeed.

Step 3. Visualize your Goal.

Visualize success. Your Goal. The woman… or women of your dreams. Her hair, her warmth, her touch and of course, her boobs!

Step 4. Have faith and believe in your goal, God, the universe and yourself.

In addition to visualizing your dream, you have to have faith and believe in your goal for success. Essentially you are manifesting and that requires a dream, faith and action. Note the critical word – ACTION. Before action, you must have faith and belief with CERTAINTY that you will achieve. And you shall.

Step 5. Consider everything is temporary. The moment. The situation.

Everything is temporary.

Step 6. Keep calm and carry on.

Remember the Boy-Girl Theory, which states, boy plays it cool, boy gets girl. So keep calm carry on and play it cool.

Step 7. Never give up and try again.

Sometimes your game is not quite A Game and she’s uncertain and she says to no. If it was maybe, then she’ll still say no. That doesn’t mean never. Often she will change her mind if your game improves. Make yourself better and roll A Game and she’ll say “Yes.”

Step 8. Take step back and evaluate the situation.

It’s never the girl. Keep that in mind. What she wants or expects? Or was the timing wrong? If it wasn’t the timing, it’s probably you. What was the color of your shirt? Red? You get the idea. There are so many things that can turn a woman off, and only a few things that will turn her on.

Step 9. Be modest. What can you change about you?

Back to making yourself better. Almost all guys roll A Game with FU money. So if you became rich, you’d have some pretty good game. Or if you do 200 pushups a day. Or both. So are you rich and can you do 20 pushups a day? You get the idea? You can change yourself and roll much better game.

Step 10. Try a different approach.

The soccer Mom isn’t going to want you to come over to her house in the suburbs with your Harley to pick her up. Seems sweet, but she has to worry about who will take care of the kids if she falls off the motorcycle. Much less what the HOA ladies will say. The same soccer Mom will love being picked up in a big crossover with room for her kids to come along next month. Try a different approach.

Or a new girl.

Step 11. Have a good time.

No worries. When you get good at approaching people and talking about nothing and everything, it gets much easier to flirt with women. Have a good time and practice talking to strangers and people on the street, in stores and on your way through the day. Say nice things, give compliments and make people feel good. Have a good time.

Step 12. Smile. You Will Succeed.

Smile. Smile and Smile more! Remember, you look better smiling. You are more attractive. You attract attention. A smiling face says you are a happy person. Think about the smile you have after she gives you her phone number!

And that is 12 Simple Rules for Dating Success and Peace of Mind. Follow these steps and you’ll have a great time and have success dating.