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A Game Dating Strategy – Silence. Make Her Think About You.

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: Creating Desire
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Marshmello – Silence Ft. Khalid

Dating Strategy – Silence Works.

Welcome to Mr. Right’s Dating Advice! Today we are going to teach you how to run game. And teach you why it works.

Really we’re going to teach you how to shut up and get laid!

The Game is Psychology.

The basics of the basics. Boy plays it cool. Boy gets girl.

Seems what makes great advice different that good advice is simplicity. How easy can we make it? How about this?

Bro… Shut Up. Patience. Wait. Play it cool.”

The Game. The Laws of Attraction.

Getting back to basics with “boy plays it cool, boy get’s girl” let’s open that faded copy of Winning through Intimidation by Robert J. Ringer and flip to page, 190 for his recap of the Boy-Girl Theory.

Quoting… “The Boy-Girl Theory is probably the most basic of all psychological rules governing human relationships. In fact it was in existence the day man first appeared on earth. It states that every person wants what he can’t have and does not want what he can have. It is most evident in the “boy-girl game,” and there are very few adults in the world that have not played the game. It works like this:

If boy plays it cool, then girl wants boy (or vice versa); if boy comes on like a hungry dog chasing a squirrel, then girl does not want boy (or vice versa).

If you’ve ever seen a guy who looks like the Hunchback of Notre Dame walking down the street with a gorgeous female on his arm, and wondered what the girl could possibly see in him, you were undoubtable viewing the results of the Boy-Girl Theory, the old Hunchback probably knew how to play it cool.

Gentlemen, we are not

Running Game is Consciously Changing Your Natural Behavior to Create Desire and Attraction. When you bring your A Game, you bring your best – A Game Dating.

The Game is Leveraging Attraction, kindness and desire to maintain lust and create the conditions for love. Winning the Game takes leveraging attraction and kindness to create desire to maintain lust and create the conditions for love and lust. You screw up, or say dumb stuff you lose. You say nothing or the right thing and you win.

There are clearly winners and losers in the dating game. Those alone at night – are losers. It’s simple. The winners have both love and lust.

What you say and do and the little details is what makes the difference. The great part about online dating is you don’t do anything. You don’t even have to talk. You type stuff. Love and lust is removed from 5 senses to one. Thought and interpretation. You creates basic image and her imagination fills in the blanks.

Winning the dating game is mostly psychology and patience. Success, love and lust are ruled by the Laws of Attraction. Not as metaphysical speculation, but as proven behavior that creates desire. The laws of Attraction are not always logical.

Don’t Be a Car Salesman. A Player. A Hustler.

The same with sales and how to get people to buy things. Dating is just like selling. The selling game doesn’t change. What you sell does.

You can run a hustle and be a great salesman and sell someone a piece of shit.

Be as honest

Honesty and Good Intentions, Whatever They Maybe.

Create. Urges.

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Wait. For an Offering. Be Busy.

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Make Her Laugh. Structured Response

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Don’t create Obligations.

If you send over a emoji kiss, she’s obligated to send a kiss back. You’re making her do something. Obligating her.

Silence. Make Her Think About You.

Step 1. Smile Bro!

I smile and give a bit of a confident grin as I’m about to run Baywatch style infront of all these tourists. As I get right infront of her, maybe 8 feet away, she notices me and smiles.
Gentlemen, we’re not playing games. Often you’ll read on women’s dating profiles, “No Games.” or “Tired of Games.” Nice ladies… often they are clueless. They think there is some mysterious game going on and her kitty is the prize. Often these women don’t date well, have been ghosted, may not understand men, are boring in bed or something weird is going on – or she just expects way too much.

How to Pick Up a Hot Girl on the Beach

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: Pickups, Hot Girls, Beach
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Girls Girls Girls

How to Pickup Hot Girls! At the Beach!

Welcome to Mr. Right’s Dating Advice! Today we are going to teach you how to pickup a Hot Girl on the beach.

My name is Jeff and I live on the beach in south Florida. Without question, one of the best places to pickup a girl is at the beach. For a number of reasons. Mostly, you know what she looks like without clothes on. Major bonus! You are also meeting a fun girl or woman that enjoys spending time at the beach and not sitting at home, alone or with her cats.

I’ve recently starting jogging the beach at sunset after 6 months off from a knee injury. I’ve also been dating a dinner and dick chick and it would be nice not to have to pay for it. She’s really hot but still, the principal.

Prepare for the Chase

After walking probably thousands of miles on the beach, women are not going to run up to you everyday. It happens quite a bit though, where they pursue you. It’s great! I love being chased by women. Just not mean, lazy or fat women.

This particular island is like an International drop off for hot cougars with surprisingly large breasts. It’s fairly dangerous if you walk around without a shirt. You get scratched and bitten! No worries, I love taming cougars. I even wear a safari shirt on dates with these women.

Back to the chase! There’s 100 single women per mile on this beach in a bikini. Good numbers. Not Daytona numbers of 10,000 per mile… but good.

Mentally, time for deep breaths and a smile! I’m going to have to run game and say the right shit at the right time. In turn, I get to choose who I date. What I want, who I want, when I want. Plus this is much easier than you think!

NBD. No Big Deal. It’s Our Duty.

No big deal. I’m getting better at picking up girls in person. I’m really good at dating online. I can date endlessly from Tinder and OKC. I can go on any kind of date and I do well in person. I’ve also accepted that it’s our duty as men to carry forward tradition and have a good time entertaining and making beautiful women happy. If we didn’t do it, it’s just not going to happen. Somebody has to do it and today it’s me. Just that simple. No big deal.

I’ve also accepted that it’s our duty as men to carry forward tradition and have a good time entertaining and making beautiful women happy. If we didn’t do it, it’s just not going to happen. Somebody has to do it and today it’s me.

The Scope Out, Recon.

Okay back to the beach, it’s like a football field. A game is played. And this really is a great place to pickup girls on the beach. A lot of things help to make this easy; the beach is not too wide, the surf is light and the sand is not too soft along the water. There’s also plenty of single women for a solid mile. The beach is lined by condo towers and four and five start hotels. On this run I’ll pass by two former girlfriends buildings, a town beach, a city beach, a Hilton and five Marriott Vacation hotels.

Since I ran the beach yesterday, I know what time the tide will be and it’s low tide. That means I can run on the sand bars and it’s half as much work! Some guys jog, I run and walk. I start slow and then build to a full sprint and then slow down.

In addition to knowing the tide, I know there is a foxy blonde, late 40’s in perfect shape with nice double D’s around sunset at town beach. Seems like she need a pick me up or a rebound!

There’s also a new kitten around the pumphouse. I’ve seen her in the morning doing yoga. And she says, “Look at me!” when she stretches. You see her from a football field away.

The Notice Game. Smile Bro!

As I pull my beach cruiser bicycle up to the beach, I see the cute yoga kitten laying in the sand 50 feet away! Hurray! Today just got a lot better.

I kick off my flip flops and I hop down off the concrete pier down into the sand. My knee has been hurting so stop and kneel with my right knee in the sand. I pause for a moment and I hop up and begin to approach her.

I smile. And keep smiling! Usually I have a bit of a confident grin as I’m about to run Baywatch style in front of all these tourists. I start by walking down the beach. As I get right in front of her, maybe 8 feet away, she notices me and smiles.

The Wave. She’s Friendly!

I give a “Hey, You… You Rock!” extra smile. And she gives a cool little wave!

Sweet. That’s a Yes! She’s made up her mind. I smile really big and lean back towards her as I walk by as if I don’t want to keep walking. And then I start a light jog off down the beach.

Right Time and Right Place…

I spent about 25 minutes running the beach. I wanted to time it so she’s still there but just wrapping up as it is sunset. Too late and she’s gone. Too early and I look desperate.

Let’s Stall for a Moment.

When I got back to the pumphouse and the pier, I took a few minutes to swim and rinse off. I put my phone in my baseball cap set it next to my bicycle. I walked out into the water and swam for just a minute. I didn’t try to do a bunch of laps or impress this girl. I’m right in front of her in the water.

I walked out and smiled and she was playing the notice game staring at her phone. She pretended not to notice me swimming right in front of her.

The Osprey – A Missed Opportunity

The sunset behind the girl is spectacular. Big pink sky. Perfect moment. When I got back to the bike, I put my hat on and looked south and was startled by a large bird in the water right in front of me! I thought an eagle was injured and being attacked by a shark at first glace! But no, it was an osprey that came out of nowhere and splashed down just 10 feet from me. And it missed!

That’s rare here. The the fish are plentiful and the water is clear. A missed opportunity. It reminds me how just three months ago I was picked up by three beautiful women on this beach in one hour, but there was still a missed opportunity. I was just at the right place and the right time for two of them. They gave me their numbers but the other did not and I did not ask. And it was a missed opportunity. Not once in a lifetime. But once for us. I was not going to let that happen again.

You lose everything – doing nothing. A missed opportunity.

And at that moment, I knew I had nothing to lose. And I’m here for fun. This girl just might be fun!

Let’s Do It! The Approach

I didn’t want to be that osprey flying away empty handed, so I SMILED and began walking her way. I casually walked right up to her and I remind myself I’m just here to be friendly and fun. She glances up from her phone with a look of hesitation and gives a warm smile. I give a friendly little wave and I say “Helloooo.” And I drag it out a little bit like a foreigner from Europe.

I start with “You’re way cool. I’m Jeff. Are you new here?” (Note: The Only Answer is Yes. Or some version of Yes).

She says, “I’ve been a little while, I work up at the tattoo shop. My name is Candy.”

I smile again and point to the tattoos on her leg and say, “Your tattoos are awesome! I don’t have any… yet! And point to my stomach.

She smiles and says, “Oh, I do the piercings I don’t do the tattoos.”

I replied with, “Right on. Nice to meet you and welcome to the island!”

She smiles again with a very slow sexy reply says, “Thank you, I appreciate that.”

As the sun is almost completely down, I said, “We’ll see you around. And have a good night.”

She gives a warm, “Catch you later.” and the little wave again.

And that’s how to pickup a hot girl on the beach!

Now I could have asked for her number, but I live on this block and she lives maybe two blocks always. I know I’ll see her again fairly soon and it will be very easy to talk to her as we are now acquainted. And we know each other’s names.

You can always say, “You’re really cool. Would you like to meet for drinks? My treat.”

You can always say, “You’re really cool. Would you like to grab a bite to eat? My treat.”

And then, “Do you mind if I get your phone number?”

And that’s how to get a girls number, just about anywhere.

How to Pick Up a Hot Girl on the Beach | A Game Dating

The Thirty Year Theory – Winning The Dating Game

Featuring advice from Robert J. Ringer and the 1974 version of Winning Through Intimidation, a self development book about success, business and keeping control of a situation.

Section: Encouragement and Advice
Topics: Relationships, Love, The Game
Audience: Guys and Gals
Level: The Cub, The Man & The Casanova

Optional Audio: My Next 30 Years by Tim McGraw.

Changing your Perspective: The 30 Year Theory: Go after all you can get, have some fun and win!

I’ve been reading a heavily faded and yellowed copy of Winning Through Intimidation by Robert J. Ringer. This is a paperback version from 1974 with no cover or back cover. The lessons and advice are still priceless.

Keeping in perspective and taking a big step back… Winning Through Intimidation is a self development book about success, business and keeping control of a situation. Robert uses his perspectives to win at business and real estate and how to create the mental perspective, creating and using tools, boundaries and defining limits to maintain his objective.

Next, we’re going to apply the bedrock of his philosophy – to dating.

And hopefully broaden our perspective with an understanding how to view the social situations from a distance and still be intimately involved.

The Thirty Year Theory – Death is a Reality

The The Thirty Year Theory states death is a reality AND most people tend to block from their conscious mind the reality they are going to die.

Robert said, “I certainly didn’t like facing the fact any more than does anyone else, but I finally did so after the Theory of Reality become firmly entrenched in my thinking. I simply recognized death is a reality. I quit hiding my head in the would-be sands of eternal life and faced the reality that – give or take a few years – I had about thirty years left to “get on with it.” Sure I might stretch that to 50 years, but on the other hand circumstances might cut it down to one. Thirty was merely a “working number” I chose because it seemed to me a the time to be a reasonable estimation of how many years I had left to play the game of life, barring the unforeseen.”

Robert continues with, “I made up my mind that I was not going to lose – because of fright, intimidation or another reason – what might be my only opportunity to play the game.”

Gentlemen, that statement is nuts on… “what might be my only opportunity to play the game.”

Just like dating, it might be your only opportunity to play the game – you can go up to any girl and play the dating game. You have nothing to loose. Don’t be hard on yourself and have a good time.

But bring your A Game if you want to Win! Your best Game. Say the right things at the right time and you’ll be Mr. Right.

Boy Girl Theory | Winning The Dating Game

Robert would have been a great dating coach if he wasn’t so busy selling real estate. On page 190, he states “The Boy Girl theory is probably the most basic of psychological rules governing human relationships. In fact it was in existence the day man first appeared on earth. It states that every person wants what he can’t have and does not want what he can have. It is most evident in the “boy-girl game,” and there are very few adults in the world that have not played that game. It works like this:

If boy plays it cool, then girl wants boy (or vice versa); if boy ones on like hungry dog chasing a squirrel; then girl does not want boy (or vice versa).