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Patience is the name of the Game. Worst Thursday Date, Best Sunday Date!

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: First Dates
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Marshmello – Silence Ft. Khalid

A Game Dating: Patience is the name of the Game.

It’s Sunday night. A spectacular cool fall night here in South Florida on Singer Island. A cool breeze from the north has made today, a great day.

Earlier in the week, I had a horrible date. The worst date ever. Let’s say I’ve had one or two that tied this. But reasonably, this was the worst.

We’ll call her Angee. Anyways, this girl hits me up on Bumble about 10 days ago. She’s forward but short. A strawberry blonde from New Jersey. Fairly attractive but not hot. Let’s say the fun neighbor girl next door… with just a hint of redhead trouble. A mid 7… on a good day, a 7.7 out of 10.

We had only a few sentences and she was quick to ask to go out for drinks. I let her know that I just sold my Porsche and I’m in the process of getting a motorcycle, which means I have no ride.

No worries, turns out this girl doesn’t have a car either! In theory she will be fun and not judgmental. In theory.

The best part of living on a tropical island is it’s a tropical island. 😀 We have 5 or 6 public bars and many big private resorts. It’s all inclusive once you get here. I got here years ago…

So in the Dating Game, he or she whom has the nicest place/town/location hosts. By default you go to the better place. Unless you live in nowhere then you both go somewhere better to meet and greet. And for me, it means in you live in 30 miles around this island, you come here, because it’s that good.

On Tuesday Angee asks me how’s my scheduling looking to meet up. I suggest to Angee to come to Island for drinks. And since she takes the time to come my way, I’ll pick up the drinks. Partially to be friendly and the other to lessen the dating pay to play feel, where she’s doing something for that drink and it takes a bit of the awkward part out.

We played the qiuet game on Wednesday. No textinging at all. In anticipation for Thursday. The classic game play of say nothing to be safe. The date is scheduled. Anything you say will probally screw it up.

Thursday rolls around and she gives the confirmation greeting in the late morning and asks if we are on for later.

I say, “Sure.”

What to Expect & What Works.

The Right Attitude.

1. Use a Few Dating Sites and Apps

Different Apps gets Different Girls.

Bro, I live in nowhere. What should I do?

Easy. You have Three options. First, move.

If you live in a remote part of the world, expect you’ll have to do some traveling.

Option 2. Travel Dating and

Option 3. Remote Relationships

Really we’re going to teach you how to shut up and get laid!

Bro… Shut Up. Patience. Wait. Play it cool.”

Filed Under: Dating Advice, MEMBERS ONLY, Relationships Tagged With: dating, dating success, strategy

Dating Websites THE LOW DOWN. The Cost of Free.

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: Dating Websites Reviewed
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Marshmello – Silence Ft. Khalid

Dating Websites THE LOW DOWN. And The Cost of Free.

Welcome to Mr. Right’s Dating Advice! Today we are going to teach you what dating websites rock and which ones suck. And why.

Note: We are not married losers sitting at some company being paid to write. We hustlers, beach boys, playboys and lovers. We use these websites to attract and pickup up women. We make love to them and teach you what works and how to save time. The real deal. And yeah, we only date hot chicks. We know what to say, what not to say and go along for the ride and have a great time! Anytime.

Really we’re going to teach you how to shut up and get laid!

Bro… Shut Up. Patience. Wait. Play it cool.”

Dating Websites THE LOW DOWN. The Cost of Free.

Welcome to Mr. R

Filed Under: Dating Advice, MEMBERS ONLY, Relationships Tagged With: dating, dating success, running game, silence, strategy

Famous 5 Minute Online Dating Quick Start for Success

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: Creating Desire
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Marshmello – Silence Ft. Khalid

Famous 5 Minute Online Dating Quick Start for Success

Like life, online dating is what you make it. Using the right tools for the right job, you save tons of time and money. With these dating profiles, the text messages and pickup lines, you can date as much as you want. This is a quick guide to give you an idea how to use your time and what to do, so you have a great time. There’s an abundance of love and lust. Be patient and you will succeed.

What to Expect & What Works.

The Right Attitude.

1. Use a Few Dating Sites and Apps

Different Apps gets Different Girls.

Bro, I live in nowhere. What should I do?

Easy. You have Three options. First, move.

If you live in a remote part of the world, expect you’ll have to do some traveling.

Option 2. Travel Dating and

Option 3. Remote Relationships

Really we’re going to teach you how to shut up and get laid!

Bro… Shut Up. Patience. Wait. Play it cool.”

Filed Under: Dating Advice, MEMBERS ONLY, Relationships Tagged With: dating, dating success, strategy

First Date and She Brings Over A Rubber Mattress

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: Creating Desire
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Marshmello – Silence Ft. Khalid

Dating Strategy – Silence Works.

Welcome to Mr. Right’s Dating Advice! Today we are going to teach you about different expectations, dates verses hookups.

Really we’re going to teach you how to shut up and get laid!

Check this out… so I meet this nice girl online. Typical deal, she sees my profile, actually reads it and sends me a message. Fair enough. I get a couple messages a day from new girls. Most are the typical “Wow.” or “Hey, My name is Jane. What’s Yours?” intro message. I keep an eye out for the girls that just look at the pictures and message me – these girls only want sex. Generally lots of rough sex. (:

No worries, this new girl follows all the rules, reads my profile and ask questions about things I’m interested in. It’s off to a good start!

You should know, smart hot guys get the same amount of attention that hot chicks get online – lots. If you look good, guy or girl and you are looking for a date, playmate or a friend, there is an abundance and they will find you online. The sheer volume of people using dating sites, makes it well worth your while to have the best profile possible to attract new people. I offer dating advice and expert help with your dating profile. I know what works and how to get women from the dating site to your pad. If you would like basic help with your profile, go here. For guys that don’t know what to say, I offer complete profile strategy and writing to attract the right person for you – Checkout My Platinum Dating Profiles.

Back to my adventure… So this new girl and I have a lot in common and she is a “match” according to the dating site. As much as I enjoy beautiful women, rich chicks and all that jazz, a relationship or a friend with benefits is much nicer if we have things in common for casual pillow talk.

Quite honestly, I’m fairly busy and content, so I’m not going to drive all over Southern California to go on date, much less for a first date. I live by the beach, why in heck would I want to get in a car and deal with traffic and get all stressed out? I don’t mind hopping on the motorcycle to cruise around town and go on adventure trips, but I’m certainly not going to look for a parking spot and worry about being on time. It’s much easier if she just comes over.

My motto is, why row when you can just put up the sail? On a side note, I actually love rowing. I even have a Bowflex that I only use for rowing. I lived on a lake for 10 years and I’d row in the morning with the fog rising off the water – ah… the good ole’ days. When it comes to relationships, it supposed to be easy, so I don’t row. I sail. I go with the flow, with the wind. I steer a bit, keep calm and have a good time.

Back to my story… after a few messages online, I give her my number and she starts texting. We get to the 500 message benchmark and she’s kicking around days to come up and visit that would work with her schedule.

I’ve noticed it’s around 500 text messages and most women will see you are not chasing and will pursue you. When you get to 800-900 messages, which include just smiley faces and kisses counting as a message, it’s time to meet. If she goes over 1,000 messages you are vested, she’s a no-go or something weird is going on. So meet or move on to the next girl.

Oddly, she says Monday will work for her. Okay with me. I usually prefer to meet new girls Tuesday-Thursday as Mondays are recovery day and there’s not a lot going on for events and things to do on Mondays. The weekend is reserved for exiting hot dates and bro’s night. Not only does she say Monday, but 10:00 in the morning. Ummm… okay. Some days I get up early, but I can’t guarantee it. I like to have coffee, swim and play a round of tennis or two before a date, but for this girl seems cool enough and I will make an exception.

So Monday comes around and she sends a text at 8:30 in the morning that she’s on the way. Sure enough she’s on time and she rings the bell. I head to the door and invite her in. Nice girl. She looks better than her pictures and she passes the hug and sniff test.

Interesting enough, she’s got a large white shopping bag with her. Hmmm…. that’s different.

She takes a seat on my couch and I offer her coffee. Within a few moments we’re close and nuzzling. I’m a professional nuzzler. I even perfected the 2-3 day face stubble to get the most stimulation on her neck. In a minute or two we start making out and all is good.

Excitedly, she hops up and opens up the bag. This girl pulls out a new rubber mattress.

“No sh*t.” Wow. First date and a rubber mattress.

If you don’t know what a rubber mattress is, take a second and look it up.

Girl, it’s 10:05 on Monday morning and you’ve come over looking to get plowed and all kinky with a rubber mattress for our first date?

And all this time I thought I found a nice girl that wanted to go the beach after sex, cuddle up and watch movies.

Here’s the kicker…
She was married.

That’s why on my profile, the first thing I say is… “No married women. Period. No married women. Just look at the pictures and move along.”

Filed Under: Dating Advice, MEMBERS ONLY, Relationships Tagged With: dating, dating success, running game, silence, strategy

A Game Dating Strategy – Silence. Make Her Think About You.

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: Creating Desire
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Marshmello – Silence Ft. Khalid

Dating Strategy – Silence Works.

Welcome to Mr. Right’s Dating Advice! Today we are going to teach you how to run game. And teach you why it works.

Really we’re going to teach you how to shut up and get laid!

The Game is Psychology.

The basics of the basics. Boy plays it cool. Boy gets girl.

Seems what makes great advice different that good advice is simplicity. How easy can we make it? How about this?

Bro… Shut Up. Patience. Wait. Play it cool.”

The Game. The Laws of Attraction.

Getting back to basics with “boy plays it cool, boy get’s girl” let’s open that faded copy of Winning through Intimidation by Robert J. Ringer and flip to page, 190 for his recap of the Boy-Girl Theory.

Quoting… “The Boy-Girl Theory is probably the most basic of all psychological rules governing human relationships. In fact it was in existence the day man first appeared on earth. It states that every person wants what he can’t have and does not want what he can have. It is most evident in the “boy-girl game,” and there are very few adults in the world that have not played the game. It works like this:

If boy plays it cool, then girl wants boy (or vice versa); if boy comes on like a hungry dog chasing a squirrel, then girl does not want boy (or vice versa).

If you’ve ever seen a guy who looks like the Hunchback of Notre Dame walking down the street with a gorgeous female on his arm, and wondered what the girl could possibly see in him, you were undoubtable viewing the results of the Boy-Girl Theory, the old Hunchback probably knew how to play it cool.

Running Game - Silence

Gentlemen, we are not

Running Game is Consciously Changing Your Natural Behavior to Create Desire and Attraction. When you bring your A Game, you bring your best – A Game Dating.

The Game is Leveraging Attraction, kindness and desire to maintain lust and create the conditions for love. Winning the Game takes leveraging attraction and kindness to create desire to maintain lust and create the conditions for love and lust. You screw up, or say dumb stuff you lose. You say nothing or the right thing and you win.

There are clearly winners and losers in the dating game. Those alone at night – are losers. It’s simple. The winners have both love and lust.

What you say and do and the little details is what makes the difference. The great part about online dating is you don’t do anything. You don’t even have to talk. You type stuff. Love and lust is removed from 5 senses to one. Thought and interpretation. You creates basic image and her imagination fills in the blanks.

Winning the dating game is mostly psychology and patience. Success, love and lust are ruled by the Laws of Attraction. Not as metaphysical speculation, but as proven behavior that creates desire. The laws of Attraction are not always logical.

Don’t Be a Car Salesman. A Player. A Hustler.

The same with sales and how to get people to buy things. Dating is just like selling. The selling game doesn’t change. What you sell does.

You can run a hustle and be a great salesman and sell someone a piece of shit.

Be as honest

Honesty and Good Intentions, Whatever They Maybe.

Create. Urges.

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Wait. For an Offering. Be Busy.

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Make Her Laugh. Structured Response

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Don’t create Obligations.

If you send over a emoji kiss, she’s obligated to send a kiss back. You’re making her do something. Obligating her.

Silence. Make Her Think About You.

Step 1. Smile Bro!

I smile and give a bit of a confident grin as I’m about to run Baywatch style infront of all these tourists. As I get right infront of her, maybe 8 feet away, she notices me and smiles.
Gentlemen, we’re not playing games. Often you’ll read on women’s dating profiles, “No Games.” or “Tired of Games.” Nice ladies… often they are clueless. They think there is some mysterious game going on and her kitty is the prize. Often these women don’t date well, have been ghosted, may not understand men, are boring in bed or something weird is going on – or she just expects way too much.

Filed Under: Dating Advice, MEMBERS ONLY, Relationships Tagged With: dating, dating success, running game, silence, strategy

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