Topics: Relationships, Love, Success
Audience: Guys and Gals
Level: The Cub, The Man & The Casanova
Optional Audio Imagine Dragons, Whatever it Takes.
12 Simple Rules for Dating Success, Happiness and Peace of Mind
Sometimes failure is not an option, for love and life. The two things most people can’t live without. If you are struggling for life, you have to succeed. Failure is death and that is not an option. Just as with Love. If you are struggling with love, you have to succeed. Failure is not an option. Except for the crazy cat lady, she gave up. She loves the cats and they really don’t care about her. She has no love.
How Hard Are You Really Trying?
Putting it perspective, when you are fighting for you life, you’ll try a lot harder. Again and again until you succeed. To succeed dating, you’ll need to go all in. And open your heart. And often when you open your heart dating, you get hurt. Use these words to bring peace in times of uncertainty, loneliness, rejection and a path for success – those feelings are all temporary. It’s tricky to be above the situation, when you are in it. And all in.
12 Steps for Dating Success!
1. Smile.
2. Tell Yourself “I will succeed!”
3. Visualize your goal.
4. Have faith and believe in your goal, God, the universe and yourself.
5. Consider everything is temporary. The moment. The situation.
6. Keep calm and carry on.
7. Never give up and try again.
8. Take step back and evaluate the situation.
9. Be modest. What can you change about you?
10. Try a different approach.
11. Have a good time.
12. Smile. You Will Succeed.
Step 1. Smile! For Your Dating Success!
Way under done. Smile. Smile and Smile more! First, you look better smiling. Everyone does. A smiling face says you are a happy person. Fun and people want to be around happy people. Who wants to hang out with Debbie Downer? Nobody. So smile and if you have to act. Over time, it’ll be genuine. If you want to attract, you have to be likeable and fun to be around. Smiling is #1.
Step 2. Tell Yourself “I will succeed!”
You can achieve almost anything you want; if you spend enough time, effort and energy and sometimes money; but you can achieved anything you put your mind to. Visualize success and put action forth. Eventually you will succeed.
Step 3. Visualize your Goal.
Visualize success. Your Goal. The woman… or women of your dreams. Her hair, her warmth, her touch and of course, her boobs!
Step 4. Have faith and believe in your goal, God, the universe and yourself.
In addition to visualizing your dream, you have to have faith and believe in your goal for success. Essentially you are manifesting and that requires a dream, faith and action. Note the critical word – ACTION. Before action, you must have faith and belief with CERTAINTY that you will achieve. And you shall.
Step 5. Consider everything is temporary. The moment. The situation.
Everything is temporary.
Step 6. Keep calm and carry on.
Remember the Boy-Girl Theory, which states, boy plays it cool, boy gets girl. So keep calm carry on and play it cool.
Step 7. Never give up and try again.
Sometimes your game is not quite A Game and she’s uncertain and she says to no. If it was maybe, then she’ll still say no. That doesn’t mean never. Often she will change her mind if your game improves. Make yourself better and roll A Game and she’ll say “Yes.”
Step 8. Take step back and evaluate the situation.
It’s never the girl. Keep that in mind. What she wants or expects? Or was the timing wrong? If it wasn’t the timing, it’s probably you. What was the color of your shirt? Red? You get the idea. There are so many things that can turn a woman off, and only a few things that will turn her on.
Step 9. Be modest. What can you change about you?
Back to making yourself better. Almost all guys roll A Game with FU money. So if you became rich, you’d have some pretty good game. Or if you do 200 pushups a day. Or both. So are you rich and can you do 20 pushups a day? You get the idea? You can change yourself and roll much better game.
Step 10. Try a different approach.
The soccer Mom isn’t going to want you to come over to her house in the suburbs with your Harley to pick her up. Seems sweet, but she has to worry about who will take care of the kids if she falls off the motorcycle. Much less what the HOA ladies will say. The same soccer Mom will love being picked up in a big crossover with room for her kids to come along next month. Try a different approach.
Or a new girl.
Step 11. Have a good time.
No worries. When you get good at approaching people and talking about nothing and everything, it gets much easier to flirt with women. Have a good time and practice talking to strangers and people on the street, in stores and on your way through the day. Say nice things, give compliments and make people feel good. Have a good time.
Step 12. Smile. You Will Succeed.
Smile. Smile and Smile more! Remember, you look better smiling. You are more attractive. You attract attention. A smiling face says you are a happy person. Think about the smile you have after she gives you her phone number!
And that is 12 Simple Rules for Dating Success and Peace of Mind. Follow these steps and you’ll have a great time and have success dating.
Recommended Reading: Dating Strategy – Silence. Make Her Think About You.