Dating Advice

Why Men Don’t Say I Love You.

Audience: Guys and Gals

Topics: Relationships, Love
Level: Everyone

Optional Audio (This song takes some getting used to but is real pillow talk game play… couple months in.)

Why Men Don’t Say I love you.

One very simple answer.

Fear.

It is also one of the golden rule of A Game Dating, timing. The right place and the right time. Don’t cross the line until the time is right, as Love… is not attractive. Lust is.

The Magic of Attraction

Attraction is – Reverse human nature. And I guess why we want what is bad for us. Or what we can’t have. And why women instinctually are attracted to the bad boy. Here’s why.

There is no worse game than walking up to a woman and saying… “I love you.”

Likewise the the fastest way to get rid of a woman, that you’ve recently started dating is to say, “I love you.”

Absolutely the worst possible thing to say.

It’s the right thing to say… Just the wrong time.

Timing is critical. Absolutely.

Again, A Game Dating is the right place at the right time AND saying the right things. All Three. Timing is critical. Just like when you say I love you for the first time.

If you’re running game, the only thing worse you could do is insult her. Calling names. But of cordial conversation, those are the words you do not say.

This type of thinking is learned behavior. Because many, if not most, certainly a lot of guys at one point in time have screwed up and said it – and she’s gone. It didn’t work out or what have you. They opened their heart and had it broken. Pain.

On a side note, I’ve used it in relationships that are going no where, so a bit insincerely. If it’s time to end it and be a nice guy, just say… I love you. You can even send a cheesy photo with it written in the sand. If she’s just sticking around for something other than love… she’s gone. Just that quick.

Saying I Love You is Oodling.

Saying I love you too early when love is not shared…. (key, right time and right place) is oodling.

By definition… “A person who, although affectionate, has a severe lack of manners and who will exploit any opportunity to lower the tone of a conversation, usually by making extremely tenuous innuendoes.”

Note on that page… tenuous. Holding by a thread. Ghostly at best. “I was all over that babe. Made advances that were tenuous at best, what with not having even talked at a personal level.”

From oodling to tenuous innuendoes to… Ghostly.

Bam! You get ghosted if you’re running game and say “I love you too quick. By definition, that is why.

Oodling is Drooling, Slobbering or Being a Fool, a Jester.

Are Jesters and clowns sexy? No.

When have you had awesome Clown Sex? Right? It’s not game. Can you pickup hot chicks with a clown outfit? No.

She will not orgasm or shutter with a clown outfit… thinking about clown face. I’m certain. Prove me wrong. If you know of a porn video where Bozo is running game… not with a nasty coke whore either. The girl has to be hot. We’re not talking about fat chicks at a trailer park. That’s not game either. Well… if you can pickup fat chicks at a trailer park in a clown outfit… you got game. And not much to do

You can’t oodle the girl. Or anything similar. You can give a compliment… a greeting or a joke. That’s it. A compliment is NOT oodling, drooling or slobbering. Fools say I love you. And if you’ve run game with that feel free to comment below. (We’re not talking about fat chicks at a trailer park. That’s not game. Well, if you can pickup fat chicks at a trailer park in a clown outfit, you got game. And not much to do. And you should probably become a YouTube video star.

When Can You Say I Love You?

Hear me out, now you can say I Love You, when the time is right.

Some people will never get that close to feel love, much less say it. Others are inherently unable to love or choose not to love. As a projection of care, consideration, closeness and a physical energy that often accompanies lust.

When ready for Unity – Oneness, Love. (:

Some people just don’t want to be happy either. Keep that in mind. Love comes from within.

And even when love is in the air and life is grand, you still have to run game. Or attraction is lost in the eternal sands of time, with age and energy.

If you haven’t already, sign up Today! The Casanova Club… makes players look like little boys. Get wise… have a great time and run some A Game! And thank you!

How to Have Women Pursue You. Attract not Chase.

Audience: Guys Only
Level: Casanova Club
How to Attract Women, Dating

A few years back I lived in a large apartment complex on the westside of LA. I was getting ready to head out on a date, rolling all fresh and clean and this player was chilling in the lobby and we bullshitted for a bit. I was waiting for my date to pick me up with her 560SL. A nice cougar out of Beverly. We talked about game and I mentioned this woman coming to pick me up sent me a message online. This player took a step back and said, “So you don’t initiate?”

At that moment it occurred to me that I had some pretty good game. And he hustled real game – for a player.

How to Attract Women and Not Chase Them.

Mental Perspective & The Rules

For the most part having women pursue you is a perspective – entirely attitude AND following rules of the game. Very specific rules and Laws of Attraction to start a chase. And have her maintain pursuit.

As a guy, you pretty much have to do both. You have to be able to pursue women and have them pursue you.

When everything is going your way, women are attracted to you and you don’t have to chase. There’s a lot you can do to make things go your way.

Date Down and Improve Your Game

An easy way to start having women pursue you is to date down. You don’t have to date really far down, just a bit. Let’s say enough where you are super confident you control the situation, the relationship and the outcome. And if she treasures you and pays for everything – you are being pursued. I’ve found its easy to have women pursue you; the trick is to get what you want.

Taking a Step Down

When I was a pup in high school I was dating a popular blonde Christine. This girl was an 8 maybe a 8.2 and she put up quite a chase. At the same time I had been spending a lot of time with best friends Mandy and Jennine, cheerleaders from the other high school in town. These two girls were great. We’d chill out in and play this game where they’d take their bra off and you get to massage their breast from behind. It was legendary.

Now, as hot as they were and it was great spending time with them or Christine, these women were not at my becking call. They were not pursing me. I had to run game and chase them.

Then I changed my game and my expectations. The hottest girls from the other high school and a pretty girl from my own class to Lily, an older girl from the senior class with a boyfriend, Joe. Joe didn’t like me much. Anyways, it was great. You could do whatever you wanted. You still had to roll game and charm, but her expectation were so much less than the super hot girls.

There was never “No.” You could go over to her house pretty much anytime you wanted or do it just about anywhere. It lasted for a couple of months and Joe got back together with her. I believe they got married.

What I learned from the relationship with Lily was it was so much easier. She wanted my attention and was willing and able to do anything, trust and friendship. That made it equal. She was always coming over and I could go to her place. She adored me and it was an easy relationship because she pursued me.

A Light Chase

Sometimes all you need is a light chase. She won’t chase obviously but always answer the text within a few minutes and is there.

If She Chases The Sex is Better

That’s what I’ve found, almost guaranteed; the sex much better if she chases. Let’s say 2… 3… maybe 10 times better.

She Says, Let’s Enjoy Champagne and Caviar!

Audience: Guys Only

Normal afternoon here at the beach… 80… maybe 82. Perfectly sunny. A few clouds.

I’m doing my usual leaning against the boardwalk railing enjoying the breeze and the sunshine (Jenny in the Leopard Bikini picked me up in this spot last year… a NFL cheerleader. Oh my!) Anyways… I figured it stroll up to the lifeguard station and talk to my buddy Johan.

I chit chat with him and I see a crazy woman with a mask on her face and sitting in the the sand. Hear me out… the mask was covering all of her face. Every one was looking at her like what the… Even the lifeguard shrugged his shoulder, like “I don’t know Bro.”

I do know crazy is fun! Often dangerous… but fun!

No worries… this seems interesting. With a few “Hays” and weird waves… I get her attention.

I approach her and we talk for a bit.

Fuck. She’s annoying and a pretentious bitch.

For example… I try to warm her up and I say… “What’s your name?”

She kind of sneers and looks at me. And says… “Doesn’t matter.” And pauses.

With a faint French accent she says, “I’d don’t remember little things like names.”

Hmm… I’m thinking… Girl, I’m gonna pull your hair hard and plow you for that bullshit.

And I know that chilling out on a yacht that I owe nothing for but everyone works for me… is not going to come easy. I might need a bit of patience… kindness and love. So I smile and say, “My name is Jeff. ”

She starts to talk about nothing. I pretend to listen… I was really looking at her nipples. Dime size with huge double DDs. You can see how firm they are. I kept looking.

For 15 minutes. Then she proposes Champagne and Caviar!

And she asks for my number.

Nice! Welcome to Palm Beach! I got to this island specifically for affluent French woman… to take me away and lock me up in a Chateau in southern France and spend our winters on the Mediterranean. Covid really threw a monkey wrench in my plan of the Good Life on the quick when all the French women are locked up in France. Slowly… things are getting back to normal.

Good luck Gentlemen. What you want will manifest, with a bit of action, a lot of faith and maybe more of both. But with certainty, you can get anything you want. Be patient. And have faith.

-Jeff

Side Note. Not PS. If you were writing a love note to a girl, write PS. But here’s a side note. I approached that girl on the beach with utmost confidence. I’m just an okay looking guy in pretty good shape. I’ve dated gorgeous women. A few Show Stoppers. I know this girl would go all in as I’ve dated women like her in the past. It’s okay to be friendly and inquire. Just be courteous. Often you’ll make their day. You got nothing to lose. Checkout out this article on why…

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How to Be a Daddy – Shifting from Cougars to Kittens in South Florida

Audience: Guys Only

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Wednesday Morning. An interesting month. So I’ve been dating this really hot tall blonde… she is 59 and beautiful. This woman… girl is a time capsule with a has a 25 year old body… and a bunch of fun! She even has a nice place on the beach… and you get wake up sex. Like Oh Wow wake up sex! The Mermaid Personality – that’s a whole lesson itself. Anyways… out of the great blue, I’m getting picked up by a 19 year old in her dad’s Audi to go to the beach to make out… and a bit more!

No worries, I checked her ID. 😀

Just awesome and quite exciting, 59 to 19. That’s forty years. Being able to date women 40 year span difference in age from one day to the next. I’m 45 and it occurred to me that I’m able to date the entire age spectrum of sexually active women. All of them.

Today is a busy day, I’m a normal guy. I have things to do, errands to run, workout and still have time to smell the roses. I’m looking forward to a 20 year old Russian photo shoot I’m lining up. To each their own… this girl likes weed and is model quality… not supermodel, but rockin’ cute.

Sometime today I have to WhatsApp and have a first call with with a nice girl just outside of Budapest Hungary. Twenty years ago, I had a girlfriend, a Russian Jew from St. Petersburg that lived in Budapest. I won her at a pool game! That’s another story too.

Dating has it ups and downs. And sometimes you have to mow the lawn… instead of playing golf. On Saturday, a 44 year old nurse had been text me for 2 weeks and at the last minute canceled a first date. This girl was trying to leveraging game play. Girl, I’m not driving 20 minutes to your place for a first date, that’s ridiculous.

I expected to chill with her and I was even willing to buy her dinner and all. I made expectations. My own fault.

Then on Sunday, I got picked up online by a 40 year old ex-model. Again, not a supermodel… but certainly a beautiful woman that takes care of herself… I had the vibe she was a bit psycho by one of her photos… you could see it in the look in her eye… a future crazy cat lady. This girl sent a number of messaging and was super nice and poof! Gone. Ghosted.

Girl… ahh…really? You’re 40 and like a lot to deal with… so thank you.

When you go all in and give your all – your best game… A Game – you give love, attention, hope and faith and it often hurts, when its gone. The trick is how to love without resentment or expectations. And roll along. No wound licking. Minimal at least.

Running game is like fishing. You can sit there with one line in the water and some shitty bait and hope for the best. Or… you can get 4 poles out… the best bait money can buy, and most importantly a plan – the KNOW HOW, where to fish, what bait and good vibes and you enjoy kick ass a fish fry!

Now in South Florida, sprinkle in Good Fortune…. a half million dollar sport fishing boat and 10 poles – and you get the best trophy fish in the world. Notably, at the moment, I don’t have a boat, or a running car (my white convertible Porsche is dead in the driveway). But I got game. You don’t need anything but knowledge for endless love and lust. All the toys, homes, 5 star dinners… treads… just compliments your game – your perspective.

Myself, I’m wrapping up cougar life and it’s time for a new car, a home on the intercoastal and an in-house photo studio Hefner would be proud of. That’s why I have a membership fee. I hope that my experiences are shortcuts for you and your life… your love life.

Gentlemen, consider love comes from within. You can be a player and get lust… or you can give love and get lust along the way. That’s really what A Game is about. Bringing your best game, know how – being a Gentlemen and getting to pull her hair… best case. The Casanova.

At A Game Dating, I teach the game. Messaging that works, complete online profiles, fun classes, videos and everything you need to play the game. I spoon feed what to say and most importantly what not to say. You choose what you want to date. I put you in control.

Get Game – Become a Member and Sign Up Today! And YES, I’m adding in THE TEXT MESSAGES that I used to pickup a 20 year old Russian Model… 25 years younger than me! (Just cut and paste Bro. If you don’t get laid… it’s not the messages or the setup.)

PS. Gorgeous… that’s what I call her… my 38 year old side girl keeps popping up. She was an Abercrombie model and looks better than Miss America. Although her boyfriend really doesn’t like me. 😀