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How to Pick Up a Hot Girl on the Beach

Section: Dating Strategy and Advice
Topics: Pickups, Hot Girls, Beach
Audience: Guys
Level: The Casanova Club

Optional Audio: Girls Girls Girls

How to Pickup Hot Girls! At the Beach!

Welcome to Mr. Right’s Dating Advice! Today we are going to teach you how to pickup a Hot Girl on the beach.

My name is Jeff and I live on the beach in south Florida. Without question, one of the best places to pickup a girl is at the beach. For a number of reasons. Mostly, you know what she looks like without clothes on. Major bonus! You are also meeting a fun girl or woman that enjoys spending time at the beach and not sitting at home, alone or with her cats.

I’ve recently starting jogging the beach at sunset after 6 months off from a knee injury. I’ve also been dating a dinner and dick chick and it would be nice not to have to pay for it. She’s really hot but still, the principal.

Prepare for the Chase

After walking probably thousands of miles on the beach, women are not going to run up to you everyday. It happens quite a bit though, where they pursue you. It’s great! I love being chased by women. Just not mean, lazy or fat women.

This particular island is like an International drop off for hot cougars with surprisingly large breasts. It’s fairly dangerous if you walk around without a shirt. You get scratched and bitten! No worries, I love taming cougars. I even wear a safari shirt on dates with these women.

Back to the chase! There’s 100 single women per mile on this beach in a bikini. Good numbers. Not Daytona numbers of 10,000 per mile… but good.

Mentally, time for deep breaths and a smile! I’m going to have to run game and say the right shit at the right time. In turn, I get to choose who I date. What I want, who I want, when I want. Plus this is much easier than you think!

NBD. No Big Deal. It’s Our Duty.

No big deal. I’m getting better at picking up girls in person. I’m really good at dating online. I can date endlessly from Tinder and OKC. I can go on any kind of date and I do well in person. I’ve also accepted that it’s our duty as men to carry forward tradition and have a good time entertaining and making beautiful women happy. If we didn’t do it, it’s just not going to happen. Somebody has to do it and today it’s me. Just that simple. No big deal.

I’ve also accepted that it’s our duty as men to carry forward tradition and have a good time entertaining and making beautiful women happy. If we didn’t do it, it’s just not going to happen. Somebody has to do it and today it’s me.

The Scope Out, Recon.

Okay back to the beach, it’s like a football field. A game is played. And this really is a great place to pickup girls on the beach. A lot of things help to make this easy; the beach is not too wide, the surf is light and the sand is not too soft along the water. There’s also plenty of single women for a solid mile. The beach is lined by condo towers and four and five start hotels. On this run I’ll pass by two former girlfriends buildings, a town beach, a city beach, a Hilton and five Marriott Vacation hotels.

Since I ran the beach yesterday, I know what time the tide will be and it’s low tide. That means I can run on the sand bars and it’s half as much work! Some guys jog, I run and walk. I start slow and then build to a full sprint and then slow down.

In addition to knowing the tide, I know there is a foxy blonde, late 40’s in perfect shape with nice double D’s around sunset at town beach. Seems like she need a pick me up or a rebound!

There’s also a new kitten around the pumphouse. I’ve seen her in the morning doing yoga. And she says, “Look at me!” when she stretches. You see her from a football field away.

The Notice Game. Smile Bro!

As I pull my beach cruiser bicycle up to the beach, I see the cute yoga kitten laying in the sand 50 feet away! Hurray! Today just got a lot better.

I kick off my flip flops and I hop down off the concrete pier down into the sand. My knee has been hurting so stop and kneel with my right knee in the sand. I pause for a moment and I hop up and begin to approach her.

I smile. And keep smiling! Usually I have a bit of a confident grin as I’m about to run Baywatch style in front of all these tourists. I start by walking down the beach. As I get right in front of her, maybe 8 feet away, she notices me and smiles.

The Wave. She’s Friendly!

I give a “Hey, You… You Rock!” extra smile. And she gives a cool little wave!

Sweet. That’s a Yes! She’s made up her mind. I smile really big and lean back towards her as I walk by as if I don’t want to keep walking. And then I start a light jog off down the beach.

Right Time and Right Place…

I spent about 25 minutes running the beach. I wanted to time it so she’s still there but just wrapping up as it is sunset. Too late and she’s gone. Too early and I look desperate.

Let’s Stall for a Moment.

When I got back to the pumphouse and the pier, I took a few minutes to swim and rinse off. I put my phone in my baseball cap set it next to my bicycle. I walked out into the water and swam for just a minute. I didn’t try to do a bunch of laps or impress this girl. I’m right in front of her in the water.

I walked out and smiled and she was playing the notice game staring at her phone. She pretended not to notice me swimming right in front of her.

The Osprey – A Missed Opportunity

The sunset behind the girl is spectacular. Big pink sky. Perfect moment. When I got back to the bike, I put my hat on and looked south and was startled by a large bird in the water right in front of me! I thought an eagle was injured and being attacked by a shark at first glace! But no, it was an osprey that came out of nowhere and splashed down just 10 feet from me. And it missed!

That’s rare here. The the fish are plentiful and the water is clear. A missed opportunity. It reminds me how just three months ago I was picked up by three beautiful women on this beach in one hour, but there was still a missed opportunity. I was just at the right place and the right time for two of them. They gave me their numbers but the other did not and I did not ask. And it was a missed opportunity. Not once in a lifetime. But once for us. I was not going to let that happen again.

You lose everything – doing nothing. A missed opportunity.

And at that moment, I knew I had nothing to lose. And I’m here for fun. This girl just might be fun!

Let’s Do It! The Approach

I didn’t want to be that osprey flying away empty handed, so I SMILED and began walking her way. I casually walked right up to her and I remind myself I’m just here to be friendly and fun. She glances up from her phone with a look of hesitation and gives a warm smile. I give a friendly little wave and I say “Helloooo.” And I drag it out a little bit like a foreigner from Europe.

I start with “You’re way cool. I’m Jeff. Are you new here?” (Note: The Only Answer is Yes. Or some version of Yes).

She says, “I’ve been a little while, I work up at the tattoo shop. My name is Candy.”

I smile again and point to the tattoos on her leg and say, “Your tattoos are awesome! I don’t have any… yet! And point to my stomach.

She smiles and says, “Oh, I do the piercings I don’t do the tattoos.”

I replied with, “Right on. Nice to meet you and welcome to the island!”

She smiles again with a very slow sexy reply says, “Thank you, I appreciate that.”

As the sun is almost completely down, I said, “We’ll see you around. And have a good night.”

She gives a warm, “Catch you later.” and the little wave again.

And that’s how to pickup a hot girl on the beach!

Now I could have asked for her number, but I live on this block and she lives maybe two blocks always. I know I’ll see her again fairly soon and it will be very easy to talk to her as we are now acquainted. And we know each other’s names.

You can always say, “You’re really cool. Would you like to meet for drinks? My treat.”

You can always say, “You’re really cool. Would you like to grab a bite to eat? My treat.”

And then, “Do you mind if I get your phone number?”

And that’s how to get a girls number, just about anywhere.

How to Pick Up a Hot Girl on the Beach | A Game Dating

Here’s Why You Need to Be Rich. Ownership Sex is Everything!

Topics: Relationships, Love
Audience: Guys and Gals
Level: All. The Cub, The Man & The Casanova

Optional Audio: Billy Ocean – Caribbean Queen.

Ownership Sex is the Best.

You may be asking what is ownership sex?

Ownership sex is when the girl goes all in to own you.

And Yes, it is… even better than revenge sex.

Or it becomes a one way relationship.

How much does she really try?

Claude Monet was born on 14 November 1840 on the fifth floor of 45 rue Laffitte, in the 9th arrondissement of Paris.[3] He was the second son of Claude Adolphe Monet and Louise Justine Aubrée Monet, both of them second-generation Parisians. On 20 May 1841, he was baptised in the local parish church, Notre-Dame-de-Lorette, as Oscar-Claude, but his parents called him simply Oscar.[3][4] Despite being baptised Catholic, Monet later became an atheist.[5][6]

In 1845, his family moved to Le Havre in Normandy. His father, a wholesale merchant, wanted him to go into the family’s ship-chandling and grocery business,[7][8] but Monet wanted to become an artist. His mother was a singer, and supported Monet’s desire for a career in art.[9]

On 1 April 1851, he entered Le Havre secondary school of the arts.[10] He was an apathetic student who, after showing skill in art from young age, begun to draw caricatures and portraits of acquaintances at age 15 for money.[11] He began his first drawing lessons from Jacques-François Ochard, a former student of Jacques-Louis David.[11] In around 1858, he met fellow artist Eugène Boudin, who would encourage Monet to develop his techniques, teach him the “en plein air” (outdoor) techniques for painting and take Monet on painting excursions.[12][13] Monet thought of Boudin as his master, whom “he owed everything to” for his later success.[14]

In 1857, his mother died.[15] He lived with his father and aunt, Marie-Jeanne Lecadre; Lecadre would be a source of support for Monet in his early art career.[13][15]

The Woman in the Green Dress, Camille Doncieux, 1866, Kunsthalle Bremen
Paris and Algeria
From 1858 to 1860, Monet continued his studies in Paris, where he enrolled in Académie Suisse and met Camille Pissarro in 1859.[16][17] He was called for military service and served under the Chasseurs d’Afrique (African Hunters), in Algeria, from 1861 to 1862.[18] His time in Algeria had a powerful effect on Monet, who later said that the light and vivid colours of North Africa “contained the germ of my future researches”.[19] Illness forced his return to Le Havre, where he bought out his remaining service and met Johan Barthold Jongkind, who together with Boudin was an important mentor to Monet.[12]

Le déjeuner sur l’herbe (right section), 1865–1866, Paris, with Gustave Courbet, Frédéric Bazille and Camille Doncieux, first wife of the artist, Musée d’Orsay[20]
Upon his return to Paris, with the permission of his father, he divided his time between his childhood home and the countryside and enrolled in Charles Gleyre’s studio, where he met Pierre-Auguste Renoir and Frédéric Bazille.[15][21][22] Bazille eventually became his closest friend.[14] In search of motifs, they traveled to Honfleur where Monet painted several “studies” of the harbor and the mouth of the Seine.[23] Monet often painted alongside Renoir and Alfred Sisley,[24] both of whom shared his desire to articulate new standards of beauty in conventional subjects.[25]

During this time he painted Women in Garden, his first successful large-scale painting, and Le déjeuner sur l’herbe, the “most important painting of Monet’s early period”.[24][26][27] Having first debuted at the Salon in 1865 with La Pointe de la Hève at Low Tide and Mouth of the Seine at Honfleur to large praise, he hoped Le déjeuner sur l’herbe would help him breakthrough into the Salon of 1866. He could not finish it in a timely manner and instead submitted The Woman in the Green Dress and Pavé de Chailly to acceptance.[15][28] Thereafter, he submitted works to the Salon annually until 1870, but they were accepted by the juries only twice, in 1866 and 1868.[12] He sent no more works to the Salon until his single, final attempt in 1880.[12] His work was considered radical, “discouraged at all official levels”.[21]

In 1867, his then-mistress, Camille Doncieux—who he had met two years prior as a model for his paintings—gave birth to their first child, Jean.[13] Monet had a strong relationship with Jean, claiming that Camille was his lawful wife so Jean would be considered legitimate.[29] Monet’s father stopped financially supporting him as a result of the relationship. Earlier in the year, Monet had been forced to move to his aunt’s house in Sainte-Adresse.[15][28] There he immersed himself in his work, although a temporary problem with his eyesight, probably related to stress, prevented him from working in sunlight.[15][28][12]

With help from the art collector Louis-Joachim Gaudibert, he reunited with Camille and moved to Étretat the following year.[14][15] Around this time, he was trying to establish himself as a figure painter who depicted “explicitly contemporary, bourgeois”, an intention that continued into the 1870s.[15][30][21][22] He did evolve his painting technique and integrate stylistic experimentation in his plein-air style—as evidenced by The Beach at Sainte-Adresse and On the Bank of the Seine respectively, the former being his “first sustained campaign of painting that involved tourism”.[15][28]

Several of his paintings had been purchased by Gaudibert, who commissioned a painting of his wife, alongside other projects; the Gaudiberts were for two years “the most supportive of Monet’s hometown patrons”.[12][29] Monet would later be financially supported by the artist and art collector Gustave Caillebotte, Bazille and perhaps Gustave Courbet, although creditors still pursued him.[12][21]

Exile and Argenteuil

Portrait of Claude Monet, Carolus-Duran, c. 1867
He married Camille on 28 June 1870, just before the outbreak of the Franco-Prussian War.[31] During the war, he and his family lived in London and the Netherlands to avoid conscription.[15][16] Monet and Charles-François Daubigny lived in self-imposed exile.[16][A] While living in London, Monet met his old friend Pissarro, the American painter James Abbott McNeill Whistler, and befriended his first and primary art dealer Paul Durand-Ruel; an encounter that would be decisive for his career. There he saw and admired the works of John Constable and J. M. W. Turner and was impressed by Turner’s treatment of light, especially in the works depicting the fog on the Thames.[12][15][32][33] He repeatedly painted the Thames, Hyde Park and Green Park.[15] In the spring of 1871, his works were refused authorisation for inclusion in the Royal Academy exhibition and police suspected him of revolutionary activities.[34][31] That same year he learned of his father’s death.[12]

The family moved to Argenteuil in 1871, where he, influenced by his time with Dutch painters, mostly painted the Seine’s surrounding area.[30][35] He acquired a sail boat to paint on the river.[12] In 1874, he signed a six-and-a-half year lease and moved into a newly built “rose-colored house with green shutters” in Argenteuil, where he painted fifteen paintings of his garden from a panoramic perspective.[30][36] Paintings such as Gladioli marked what was likely the first time Monet had cultivated a garden for the purpose of his art.[30] The house and garden became the “single most important” motif of his final years in Argenteuil.[36] For the next four years, he painted mostly in Argenteuil and took an interest in the colour theories of chemist Michel Eugène Chevreul.[12] For three years of the decade, he rented a large villa in Saint-Denis for a thousand francs per year. Camille Monet on a Garden Bench displays the garden of the villa, and what some have argued to be Camille’s grief upon learning of her father’s death.[37]

Monet and Camille were often in financial straits during this period—they were unable to pay their hotel bill during the summer of 1870 and likely lived on the outskirts of London as a result of insufficient funds. An inheritance from his father, together with sales of his paintings, did, however, enable them to hire two servants and a gardener by 1872.[13][38][39] Following the successful exhibition of some maritime paintings and the winning of a silver medal at Le Havre, Monet’s paintings were seized by creditors, from whom they were bought back by a shipping merchant, Gaudibert, who was also a patron of Boudin.[40]

Impressionism

Impression, Sunrise (Impression, soleil levant), 1872; the painting that gave its name to the style and artistic movement. Musée Marmottan Monet, Paris
When Durand-Ruel’s previous support of Monet and his peers began to decline, Monet, Renoir, Pissarro, Sisley, Paul Cézanne, Edgar Degas, and Berthe Morisot exhibited their work independently; they did so under the name the Anonymous Society of Painters, Sculptors and Engravers for which Monet was a leading figure in its formation.[12][15] He was inspired by the style and subject matter of his slightly older contemporaries, Pissarro and Édouard Manet.[41] The group, whose title was chosen to avoid association with any style or movement, were unified in their independence from the Salon and rejection of the prevailing academicism.[12][42] Monet gained a reputation as the foremost landscape painter of the group.[16]

At the first exhibition, in 1874, Monet displayed, among others, Impression, Sunrise, The Luncheon and Boulevard des Capucines.[43] The art critic Louis Leroy wrote a hostile review. Taking particular notice of Impression, Sunrise (1872), a hazy depiction of Le Havre port and stylistic detour, he coined the term “Impressionism”. Conservative critics and the public derided the group, with the term initially being ironic and denoting the painting as unfinished.[15][42] More progressive critics praised the depiction of modern life—Louis Edmond Duranty called their style a “revolution in painting”.[42] He later regretted inspiring the name, as he believed that they were a group “whose majority had nothing impressionist”.[14]

The total attendance is estimated at 3500. Monet priced Impression: Sunrise at 1000 francs but failed to sell it.[44][45][46] The exhibition was open to anyone prepared to pay 60 francs and gave artists the opportunity to show their work without the interference of a jury.[44][45][46] Another exhibition was held in 1876, again in opposition to the Salon. Monet displayed 18 paintings, including The Beach at Sainte-Adresse which showcased multiple Impressionist characteristics.[28][47]

For the third exhibition, on 5 April 1877, he selected seven paintings from the dozen he had made of Gare Saint-Lazare in the past three months, the first time he had “synced as many paintings of the same site, carefully coordinating their scenes and temporalities”.[48] The paintings were well received by critics, who especially praised the way he captured the arrival and departures of the trains.[48] By the fourth exhibition his involvement was by means of negotiation on Caillebotte’s part.[15] His last time exhibiting with the Impressionists was in 1882—four years before the final Impressionist exhibition.[49][50]

Monet, Renoir, Pissarro, Morisot, Cézanne and Sisley proceeded to experiment with new methods of depicting reality. They rejected the dark, contrasting lighting of romantic and realist paintings, in favour of the pale tones of their peers’ paintings such as those by Jean-Baptiste-Camille Corot and Boudin.[51] After developing methods for painting transient effects, Monet would go on to seek more demanding subjects, new patrons and collectors; his paintings produced in the early 1870s left a lasting impact on the movement and his peers—many of whom moved to Argenteuil as a result of admiring his depiction.[15][52]

Crap. My New Girl is a Dinner and Dick Chick

Topics: Relationships, Love
Audience: Guys and Gals
Level: All. The Cub, The Man & The Casanova

Optional Audio: Billy Ocean – Caribbean Queen

Bro, What’s a Dinner & Dick Chick?

Now you may be asking, “What is a dinner and dick chick?” No worries.

The short answer is a dinner and dick chick is a girl that only needs a guy for dinner and dick. And that’s it.

The wise man in the village will tell you that she’s not available for a relationship.

You could date this woman on Friday night for eternity. It will be a one way relationship. Meaning she’ll take but not give. And that’s a real problem if you’re looking for a normal girlfriend. Or a wife. That’s willing and able to love to create a caring and compassionate loving relationship. Where people rely on each other and build each other.

Simply, she’ll only make time for dinner and dick. She might chill for a few days. But she’s only coming for… dinner and dick. Her heart and life is closed.

Successful Relationships | Honesty, Trust, Kindness & Generosity

To start and make a successful relationship both guy and girl need to be honest, giving and trusting. Sometimes called open hearts. Basically good people with good intentions. Typically formal relationships start with meet and greet, evening dates, drinks or dinner and progress to spending more time together at each other’s homes, going places and doing things from movies to trips. Notably, time at each other’s homes often starts with wine, making out and making love. Where one does extra things for the guest and makes them feel special.

On a quick side note, as a guy you have to go all in hosting her at your place. Little gifts, candles, flowers, the best food. The whole shebang. We have a course specifically on how to host a date at your pad.
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Generosity is Not In Her Behavior.

Relationships are built. It’s a giving situation. Dinner and dick chicks take. They never give.

Again, they take. They expect dinner and to be put on a pedestal and made feel important and be the center of attention. Not just from you. Mostly she’s looking to impress the other women in the restaurant, her friends and feed her ego – herself. She doesn’t give a shit about you. She care about your ability to spoil her. She cares – about herself. She needs to show off. To impress. Her mother. Her friends. And her ex-boyfriends. And every guy that’s hit that in the past.

She limits the relationship based on selfishness, demands, expectations. Conditional expectations, that depend on you.

Dinner and Dick Chicks are hustling and using sex as the commodity. A conditional commodity. And that’s what you’ll find out over time. These are the women that limit sex or use sex and manipulate you. You’re not going to get nice gifts and she’s not going to thing about you, being caring or considerate.

These Girls Are Not Lazy

This dinner date is the highlight of her week. She’s worked hard all week. If she’s hot most likely she has another date scheduled tomorrow. Take a look at her calendar.

She Has Expectations. That You Provide for Her.

But she won’t do shit for you. She would never provide for you. Or care for you. That’s very important when you show up at divorce court. Mostly on a Sunday afternoon when you can do anything and go anywhere, she’s not going to plan anything or think about you. She expects you to plan and pay for your activities including including dinner. She expects you to provide for her.

In the good ole days before the age of feminism, men and women took care of each other. The pretense for taking care of women in the past was they would be staying at home raising children, cleaning and cooking for the rest of her life. These girls make money and often have a nice place, nice stuff and no savings.

She Doesn’t Live the Golden Rule.

Essentially you are paying for her p*ssy. As that’s the value she brings to the relationship. Certainly not money as she will never pay, which carries over her not thinking about you, or caring or being considerate. When the sex stops what do you have? Someone in your bed that you pay for. And then she starts to manipulate because she has nothing else to do. And that’s why dinner and dick chicks are the worst choice to marry. They don’t live the Golden Rule.

Speaking of… a funny side story. So I’m dating this Dinner and Dick Chick for I don’t know… a few months. We’ll say two. We chilling in her kitchen. Typical hot blonde with an ocean front condo… there’s one in very tower building here in South Florida. Sometimes a few of them. A few kittens but mostly cougars… they are in an oceanfront condo. They know how to live.

Anyways… were bullshitting about life and this girls planner is out on her kitchen table. So I’m nuzzling with her and playing with her and I look down and I see tomorrows schedule. There’s a date with Tom and it’s circled big for 6:30. Like triple circled. WTF.? Are you shitting me?

Girl, are you for real? I’m here and have been here with you for months. And you’re lining up dates?

Hear me out… this girl ended up canceling the date. I looked her in the eye and I called her out. I was like “What is this bullshit?” She was very red and side eyed and apologized. I took all her clothes off in about two minutes and I plowed her all night. And the next night. It lasted for some time… a few more months.

She sets herself up for failure.

Her expectations fail her. She sets herself up for failure. She will never be happy with you because she expects so much, no man will ever be Mr. Right. He could be young, big cock, super nice guy, educated and great in bed, but if he’s not rich, she’ll be disappointed. She had her heart set on being saved my Mr. Right, Prince Charming or nothing. If you disappoint her a bit, she ghosts you.

The basis of her lack of happiness is no gratitude. Instead of appreciating what she has, she expects more and is disappointed. Why many people are unhappy. They lack appreciation. True appreciation.

Pride is placed before love. She’s not going to be nice. Or open her heart. She has expectations and they need to be met, immediately. Either she can see the money, or she’s out.

And all good men will tell you, the girl would rather hangout with her cats and her pride than be at your side. (That’s tight and so true.)

Honestly Bro, you can kick yourself in the dick now and burn your money, because if you fall in love with this woman, that’s what she’s gonna do.

You Pay to Play.

Dinner and Dicks Chicks are One Step up from Hookers.

It’s fun at first as she seems normal. But soon it feels like you pay for sex. A direct transaction. The difference between dinner and dick chicks and hookers is hookers are fun and you pay them to leave. Dinner and dick chicks suck. You have to listen to them, put them on a pedestal and the girl is just going to hustle you anyways. It’s lots of bullshit conversation and you can see the truth in her eyes every once in a while. Unless she’s really good. And there are really good ones that have perfected the hustle, tell you everything you want to hear, they get fed, attention, drinks, stimulation and they get free sex. You have to bust your ass and pay to play. She’s so used to free sex, she’ll shit bricks if she has to pay.

Dinner cost them nothing. They expect never to pay and never will.

Interestingly, the girl I’ve been dating the last month is the classic. East Coast. Boston. Heavy accent. Rude as f*ck. Not a bit of kindness. My nickname for her is East Coast. She’s rude and rough around the edges. But a heart of gold. This girls texts over “I WILL NEVER PAY FOR A MAN.”

Gentlemen, the girl doesn’t live the Golden Rule. To do on to others as you would do to yourself. She’s inherently selfish. Ya can’t fix that. And you can’t fix stupid. No worries. Be thankful of the good time and get on back on your horse and ride on.

Warning! These Chicks Hustle Real Game. Female Players.

Most dinner and dick chicks have been around the block. Often classy. They know what to say to you. Exactly. The girl may not be smart, but she’s got game. She knows exactly what she’s doing and knows men like you. She’s scoped so many guys and knows what she wants.

These girls have social mastery. They know people. Often they are bartenders.

The Sex Will Be Really Good.

Looking at the glass half full, the sex will be spectacular. If you roll game well enough and the girl believes she’s has a good catch, she’s gonna love you. Really big. The sex is above reproach. Really really. Good. That’s her hook. She’s going to roll game and her kitty will be perfect. She will overlook nothing.

Dinner and Dick Chicks are Future Crazy Cat Ladies

The girl’s expectations are so high that no guy will ever be good enough. She may get lucky and sucker a guy with a cigarette boat and blow to marry her or a normal guy with a house and stuff. Realistically the guy has a less than 40% chance she’ll make it married.

Now you can give it your best shot. Plow that girl for months. Watch what happens the moment you stop paying what you have been. It’s probably in dinner and wine and time. She’s not going to honeymoon you and chill for a weekend of sex and high fives. That girl is out when the dinner stops or pauses, even for a moment.

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Checkout her clothes she brings over to stay a few days. Just clothes for dinner and dick. No workout clothes. Or art fair clothes. Just clothes and shoes for fancy dinner – and nothing other than a light nightie. Her intention is in her overnight bag – she intends for nothing other than… dinner and dick.

The Dinner and Dick Chick Test #1

Stop paying for dinner. See how generous your girl is. It’s a character test. Who does she really care about. What is she willing and able to do?

The Dinner and Dick Chick Test #2

Try rolling friends with benefits. That girl will tell you to go f*ck yourself. Either you pay to play or that girl is gone. She’s not your friend and isn’t going to play ball.

They’re not Bad Women. Just no good for a relationship. Great for dinner and dick.

She Doesn’t Need You. She’ll Never Compromise, Or Meet in the Middle.

That’s the main reason why you can’t have a relationship with her – she doesn’t need you. Her pride will holdout and a new girl will come along for the nice guy. Just how it happens. And a new stray cat will show up at the Dinner and Dick Chicks door. And that resentment builds. In 20 years she’ll take it out on the neighbor kids playing in the yard.

Here’s the Trick. Some change.

Some of these girls figure it out and settle. They’re just so tired of bullshit. They’ve worked so hard to get what they have, fighting society, working a million hours. They’re owed and this is how they get it back. The girl is perpetually hungry and bitchy for starving herself to look great.

They’ve had their hearts broken. A few times.

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How to Identify a Dinner and Dick Chick.

Gentlemen. Cougars in the grass stalking. Be smart. When that lipstick and those titties is all you see… remember, she might be a dinner and dick chick. I have a safari shirt I wear when I go in the ring to train cougars. It’s rough, I get scratched, bitten and my heart torn out.

But, it’s everything. The ownership sex. The hunt. The takedown. The sex. The sex and more sex. The best part about dinner and dick chicks. Just don’t fall in love with them. They’ll break your heart. The girl doesn’t need you. She takes care of herself. She just needs… dinner and dick.

She stops trying to build a relationship, or pretentding to when she can’t find what she is truly looking for, money – most of the time.

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Her state of mind and how she structures her life.

Myself the worst case scenario is falling in love with a dinner and dick chick. The girl will bullshit you and straight up lie, patronize you premeptivly to get stuff and stimulation. She doesn’t want or need love. Not only is her heart closed, she just might be a greedy bitch that will take all your shit and tell you to fuck yourself. Literally.

What you have is poor character of a person. Selfish. Greedy. Not kind or generous. A dinner and dick chick.

It’s no different than a hooker. You pay her for sex before hand. If you don’t pay, there’s no sex.

This new girl rocks. Less she’s selfish and said, “I’ll never pay for a man.” Regardless how many times he’s paid. I just gave the girl a nice bicycle and I have a diamond friendship ring she would have gotten today, or two weeks ago. But she has been so busy telling me to screw myself.

It’s not love.

That’s the only reason why I date. And this girl would be a great companion. If she’s your friend.

Friendship or a relationship?

Truth Lies and Love.

What’s an act?

Mattress test – is there love?

Typically the girl is independent. She’s figured out how to get by without a guy.

Selfishness and Survival

The girl won’t buy you anything or do anything for you. Eventually she’ll stop coming over and begin making demands. And when she won’t let you stay the night, it’s just not worth it.

She Doesn’t Need Love – It’s a Burden Bro.

The problem is it’s a one way relationship. She doesn’t need anything other than dinner and dick. She has no time and works all the time. She certainly will not pay for anything or be generous or kind. She’s probably husting three other dicks while playing you… for dinner. Not to be negative but real. I dated a dinner and dick chick that actually had dates with other guys in her calander while I’m entertaining and listening to her complaining and whining about her life… and you see circled dates for tomorrow with a guy named Tom and she insists that you are the shit.

That girl I called out. I looked at the circle appointment date (lets not forget I have been dating this woman for 2 or 3 months and plowing her. I’m not taking her to dinner… on the principal that I won’t be used for money. But she can use me for dick. Bsasically, I’m not taking this girl out if she’s not nice or honest. As she would would never take me out. Or spend and money on me. The basis of selfishness. Dating Dinner and Dick chicks is a one way street and you might was well sign over your checkbook, retirement accounts and half your assets as that’s all that girl is looking for… security. Your shit. Your stuff. So she can be saved.

But she’ll never save you. Or give a f*ck about you.

Female Players, often Cougars without Security

A good looking woman, usually a 7 to 8.5… 9s are treasured and they usually love being treasured and spoiled, but if the girl looks so good and she’s nice… whatever. Beauty and kindness is priceless.

The Thirty Year Theory – Winning The Dating Game

Featuring advice from Robert J. Ringer and the 1974 version of Winning Through Intimidation, a self development book about success, business and keeping control of a situation.

Section: Encouragement and Advice
Topics: Relationships, Love, The Game
Audience: Guys and Gals
Level: The Cub, The Man & The Casanova

Optional Audio: My Next 30 Years by Tim McGraw.

Changing your Perspective: The 30 Year Theory: Go after all you can get, have some fun and win!

I’ve been reading a heavily faded and yellowed copy of Winning Through Intimidation by Robert J. Ringer. This is a paperback version from 1974 with no cover or back cover. The lessons and advice are still priceless.

Keeping in perspective and taking a big step back… Winning Through Intimidation is a self development book about success, business and keeping control of a situation. Robert uses his perspectives to win at business and real estate and how to create the mental perspective, creating and using tools, boundaries and defining limits to maintain his objective.

Next, we’re going to apply the bedrock of his philosophy – to dating.

And hopefully broaden our perspective with an understanding how to view the social situations from a distance and still be intimately involved.

The Thirty Year Theory – Death is a Reality

The The Thirty Year Theory states death is a reality AND most people tend to block from their conscious mind the reality they are going to die.

Robert said, “I certainly didn’t like facing the fact any more than does anyone else, but I finally did so after the Theory of Reality become firmly entrenched in my thinking. I simply recognized death is a reality. I quit hiding my head in the would-be sands of eternal life and faced the reality that – give or take a few years – I had about thirty years left to “get on with it.” Sure I might stretch that to 50 years, but on the other hand circumstances might cut it down to one. Thirty was merely a “working number” I chose because it seemed to me a the time to be a reasonable estimation of how many years I had left to play the game of life, barring the unforeseen.”

Robert continues with, “I made up my mind that I was not going to lose – because of fright, intimidation or another reason – what might be my only opportunity to play the game.”

Gentlemen, that statement is nuts on… “what might be my only opportunity to play the game.”

Just like dating, it might be your only opportunity to play the game – you can go up to any girl and play the dating game. You have nothing to loose. Don’t be hard on yourself and have a good time.

But bring your A Game if you want to Win! Your best Game. Say the right things at the right time and you’ll be Mr. Right.

Boy Girl Theory | Winning The Dating Game

Robert would have been a great dating coach if he wasn’t so busy selling real estate. On page 190, he states “The Boy Girl theory is probably the most basic of psychological rules governing human relationships. In fact it was in existence the day man first appeared on earth. It states that every person wants what he can’t have and does not want what he can have. It is most evident in the “boy-girl game,” and there are very few adults in the world that have not played that game. It works like this:

If boy plays it cool, then girl wants boy (or vice versa); if boy ones on like hungry dog chasing a squirrel; then girl does not want boy (or vice versa).

Play it cool. Just cut and paste! And you’ve got Hot Dates!

How to Have Women Pursue You. Attract not Chase.

Audience: Guys Only
Level: Casanova Club
How to Attract Women, Dating

A few years back I lived in a large apartment complex on the westside of LA. I was getting ready to head out on a date, rolling all fresh and clean and this player was chilling in the lobby and we bullshitted for a bit. I was waiting for my date to pick me up with her 560SL. A nice cougar out of Beverly. We talked about game and I mentioned this woman coming to pick me up sent me a message online. This player took a step back and said, “So you don’t initiate?”

At that moment it occurred to me that I had some pretty good game. And he hustled real game – for a player.

How to Attract Women and Not Chase Them.

Mental Perspective & The Rules

For the most part having women pursue you is a perspective – entirely attitude AND following rules of the game. Very specific rules and Laws of Attraction to start a chase. And have her maintain pursuit.

As a guy, you pretty much have to do both. You have to be able to pursue women and have them pursue you.

When everything is going your way, women are attracted to you and you don’t have to chase. There’s a lot you can do to make things go your way.

Date Down and Improve Your Game

An easy way to start having women pursue you is to date down. You don’t have to date really far down, just a bit. Let’s say enough where you are super confident you control the situation, the relationship and the outcome. And if she treasures you and pays for everything – you are being pursued. I’ve found its easy to have women pursue you; the trick is to get what you want.

Taking a Step Down

When I was a pup in high school I was dating a popular blonde Christine. This girl was an 8 maybe a 8.2 and she put up quite a chase. At the same time I had been spending a lot of time with best friends Mandy and Jennine, cheerleaders from the other high school in town. These two girls were great. We’d chill out in and play this game where they’d take their bra off and you get to massage their breast from behind. It was legendary.

Now, as hot as they were and it was great spending time with them or Christine, these women were not at my becking call. They were not pursing me. I had to run game and chase them.

Then I changed my game and my expectations. The hottest girls from the other high school and a pretty girl from my own class to Lily, an older girl from the senior class with a boyfriend, Joe. Joe didn’t like me much. Anyways, it was great. You could do whatever you wanted. You still had to roll game and charm, but her expectation were so much less than the super hot girls.

There was never “No.” You could go over to her house pretty much anytime you wanted or do it just about anywhere. It lasted for a couple of months and Joe got back together with her. I believe they got married.

What I learned from the relationship with Lily was it was so much easier. She wanted my attention and was willing and able to do anything, trust and friendship. That made it equal. She was always coming over and I could go to her place. She adored me and it was an easy relationship because she pursued me.

A Light Chase

Sometimes all you need is a light chase. She won’t chase obviously but always answer the text within a few minutes and is there.

If She Chases The Sex is Better

That’s what I’ve found, almost guaranteed; the sex much better if she chases. Let’s say 2… 3… maybe 10 times better.